Call me whatever you but, but it better not be stupid, ignorant, or suicidal.
I don't know what the fuss is. Seriously, there is almost NO difference between talking on the phone, and talking to someone in the back seat. Hands free doesn't make it any safer. I've been talking on the phone since I've started driving; no accidents, no tickets. Is it illegal in my state? Yes. Do I have a headset, yeah, now I do. Do I think it's useful? I would have the headset regardless, I just don't like holding a phone up to my ear.
But I don't understand the points people try to make. For example, you're distracted when you're talking on the phone. Sure, you are, but you're also distracted when you're talking to someone in the back seat, doing your makeup, eating a hamburger, etc. Secondly, for all the people who say, "you need both hands to drive". Screw that. When I did my driving test, I DID NOT do the 10 o'clock and 2 o'clock had position, I did the WHATEVER I WAS COMFORTABLE WITH. How do I drive, well, it depends. Usually one hand on top (either one), or one hand on bottom (either one again), with the off hand on the shifter. Why? That's what I'm comfortable doing.
You want to know what the big problem is. TEXTING WHILE DRIVING! Here in southern California, I see more people texting while driving than talking while driving. You wanna know how hard that is. Either 1) try it on an empty street with a passenger in the car. When you're done sending your BFF a text, ask the passenger if you drove in a straight line. 2) while driving on an empty street, grab a newspaper. Read the first sentence of the newspaper while trying to type your home phone number blindly (without looking at the keys on your phone). When you think your done pull over. Now see if you got the number right. If you did good job. Now what did the first sentence say? Oh yeah, you probably missed that. And if you didn't, look how far you drove. You're probably down your street already, and that was 1 sentence and 1 phone number.
Yeah, that's the problem these days, texting while driving.
/rant