Definition one: People are usually gayer when somthing good happens...
Definition Two: If you hang out with a guy and you get a tingle in your pants, and you aren't getting any ideas around any fermale regardless of looks/character.
I don't really understand where this is going but I can tell that I am not gay. Do you feel attracted to people of the same sex? Then you could call yourself gay. Honestly, I really don't know how someone could think that he/she is homosexual. How do they know that?
Here's me trying to skate the line between flaming and being risque...allow me to preface what I'm about to say by saying that I'm being flippant
I happen to know that the majority of you are gay because you completely failed to acknowledge the existence of girls, which leaves your options rather limited.
Think about it!
On a more serious note!
The only way to really know if you are homosexual is if you try it out yourself and figure that you like it.
Um... I feel kind of bad for posting this since it's kind of off topic, but somebody posted something really ignorant, and it ticked me off. It's worse than the blatantly cruel gay jokes because those posters knew they were being ignorant and are openly mocking themselves in posting, or they didn't know and you guys have told them . Plus, the jokes were funny.
This wasn't funny though. It falls into the same vein of idiocy as has gotten a lot of people here all worked up, but apparently nobody noticed it. It was offered as a supporting fact of sorts to some argument about gays and blacks or something. And it's just so stupid I had to post about it
Racism is white people hating people different from them
As a white person, I am offended. Black people, and brown and yellow and pink-purple-rainbow people can be just as racist or 'ignorant' as me. I mean, really. "Racism is white people hatin'?" Stupid.
I feel better. White pride!
That being said, I've always thought that being gay is a choice of yours, and spending serious time trying to answer the question "do I want to be gay?" will set you straight (no pun intended). And just because you answer 'no' at first doesn't mean you don't actually mean 'yes.' I guess I'm agreeing with Strop.
Oh, yeah! I almost forgot. Men can say another man is attractive and not be attracted to him or gay/bi. I don't think that should be a definition of "gay," especially since that doesn't really apply to women. People look at me weird when I say stuff like that, but they never do it when any of my chick friends say certain girls are hot or look good. Unless they are admittedly lesbo. Then they get weird looks. :/ Some from me .
Definition Two: If you hang out with a guy and you get a tingle in your pants, and you aren't getting any ideas around any fermale regardless of looks/character.
That being said, I've always thought that being gay is a choice of yours, and spending serious time trying to answer the question "do I want to be gay?" will set you straight (no pun intended). And just because you answer 'no' at first doesn't mean you don't actually mean 'yes.' I guess I'm agreeing with Strop.
Oh not quite. I must make myself clear! > It's not just a matter of deep introspection although in many cases this may be considered sufficient. But you can't possibly know unless you actually enter sexual relations with a person of the same sex and conclude that it works for you. That's as close as you can get to knowing. Before that, it's pure speculation! :O
Men can say another man is attractive and not be attracted to him or gay/bi.
I'm glad somebody has the courage to stand up and say this. I'm not going to comment on whether I think it's true or not but I know it's an uncommonly explored area of thought.
> It's not just a matter of deep introspection although in many cases this may be considered sufficient. But you can't possibly know unless you actually enter sexual relations with a person of the same sex and conclude that it works for you. That's as close as you can get to knowing. Before that, it's pure speculation! :O
That's what I meant. "Serious time" is a euphemism. :P
