I know that some users in here are in this stage too. Sometimes i can't stand it. I want to leave my Gf without she noticing to another one,but that ain't right. I do all the things that every 13 year old boy do with his Gf.
But I want to break up with her in a way that it wont hurt her feelings. Any suggestions please?
All I have to say is make sure it's not a girl you could realize you have feelings for later on in your life...
In the time period she could realize she's a lesbian, than you'd end up only hooking up with girls for sex and leaving them because you unconsciously compare them to false memories created of this girl your mind slowly reconstructs as "Perfection" and how horribly wrong everything went (Actually depending more on how long you knew the person). You will begin to blame yourself and your actions for everything and just assume relationships will not work out anyway (This part works out better if your parents are divorced and one of them never finds a new partner). Ending up alone, miserable, and start drinking to find comfort (Making feelings go numb). Also, if all your straight friends have horribly relationships (An yourself) and your gay friends have seemingly great, there is a possibility of questioning your own sexuality (Though this may just be sexual confusion/ frustration than actually homosexual tendencies)
...Or everything can go smoothly and you find a better girl.
Relationships are actual serious business, and at the time you usually don't think about what could happen as a result of your actions. Hell, even if you do think about it, things can go horribly in a different direction than you thought.
How much do you love the girl your'e dating? Why are you dating her (don't say "because I love her"? Why do you like the other girl so much? Is she treating you the way you thought she would or did she seem to change for the worse since going out? These are all questions you need to ask.
My opinion is only mine and you will hate hearing this but, your 13. It is most likely, 2 in 3 odds, chances are good that it's not, true love. If you are looking for true love then you won't even have looked at another girl and if the other girl truly is meant for you then you would find the courage and streangth to make her yours and in one way or another tell your girlfriend the truth.
If you are dating because it is simply "fun" then disregard what I said, you must know its not true love, but your in the game anyway. So many people are. In this case, your on your own because I do not know the situation.
If you want to get laid (I'm guessing this is not the case) then take a rope and learn how to tie a noose and go hang yourself. Nah, I'm just kidding. Don't hang yourself. Your'e just a little creep and you should get yourself fixed. That is, if this is only so you can lose your virginity.
I'm 17, never dated, never kissed a guy, and certainly never did it. I don't see the point of getting your heart torn out so young. There's plenty of time for that. I have see both sides of the dating realm, and I still like where I'm sitting. My friends that dated young, wound up getting married at 19. I think it's not gonna kill you to wait a few years.
