I know that some users in here are in this stage too. Sometimes i can't stand it. I want to leave my Gf without she noticing to another one,but that ain't right. I do all the things that every 13 year old boy do with his Gf.
But I want to break up with her in a way that it wont hurt her feelings. Any suggestions please?
You are 13 years old. I promise you, the whole meaning of love will change for you pretty rapidly in a few years. When it does, you will most likely think that these feelings between these two girls, though it is love, is a petty and naive love.
The kind of love one doesn't fall for but instead searches for. Searching for love is something you will only learn when you get older and even then I advise against it. When you search, you will unconsciously force yourself to love someone you would generally not think of dating. If you want to know what love truly is, don't look for it but do keep your eyes open. Even then you will go through trial and error.
I guess what I am trying to say is this, you are 13, you don't love the way you will love in a few years. Don't stop loving but untill you get a good idea about it, don't get mixed up in drama.
I forgot to mention, the fact you fell for another girl while you already have a girlfriend; you better get out of that habit or your going to have one pissed off wife when she finds you cheating on her many many years from now. Get your priorities straight or you will regret it.
There is no way of not hurting her, my friend.. in my case, it hurts her more for her to break up with you then you to break up with her talk her for a walk and at the end of it say something like that it is over for you two now you don't have any feelings for her now or something like this..
just having one at the age of 13. that would be like going up to someone and say "wanna be my gf?" and then shes like "oki"^^
seriously get over yerself! just out with it! "sorry lass i just thing this ones prettier... but look on the bright side! now you can screw around with whomever you wanna, and i got you this giant box of klinex as a byebye gift... so have a happy life!"
just remember one thing: women doesnt cry becourse they are sad! they cry becourse the want their will... remember that, and you can tame any of the XY´s in your path
First of all, you need to treat them with respect. They are not your "roperty" to do with as you please mates. Also, don't see another girl while you have a gilfriend, because in the future, your wife will not appreciate it or take it kindly.
Buy your girlfriend some gifts and take her out to a nice restuarant, I'am not talking about the most expensive place, but not a fast food restuarant.
Also, don't force your girlfriend to do anything she doesn't want to. If she wants to give you a kiss, she will, you don't have to nag her about it, she is perfectly capable of determining what she wants to do.
Any other advice, you know where to find me mates.
What about puberty? You get some hair in odd places, you start liking girls (Which, oddly, I had always been infatuated by the opposite sex since I was 5), you get erections, and you sweat alot. What is there to know about it? The only thing I find drastic is that you get really depressed alot of the time. I don't think there's too much to puberty.
I'd say give your relationship another chance and see how it works out. If it takes a turn for the worse you both should notice it and do what you 2 think is right. Eh, only time will tell. So, be patient.
ugh... puberty... nature's revenge on everyone... females get the worst of it. :\\
If she's 'stupid' but pretty, break up with her. Let's say, hypothetically, that you marry her someday... when she's old, she won't be pretty. But if you catch a smart GF then you can speak intelligently with her in your rocking chairs on the porch... waiting for your children and grandchilden to call and visit.
