I made this thread, because I've seen a lack of emotions toward girls. I read a puberty thread on her, and it's quite obvious that some chaps on AG here, don't know how to keep a girlfriend, or how to break up with them.
Here's some tips that can help you out chaps:
1. Never make your girlfriend do anything she doesn't want to do. If you want a kiss, and she says "no", she doesn't mean maybe in a little bit. When she says "no" you'd better lay off. So never make the focus of having a girlfriend just to have someone to practice your moves on, girls are not to be used for that purpose. They are humans as well, and they have a say in what they want or will do.
2. Get to know what your girlfriend likes by asking her friends. Surprise her with her favorite candy or movie as a gift, and leave it in her locker. Girl's enjoy getting gifts, and she will like you that you take an interest in her.
Post some tips you have on this half of the subject, and make sure they are appropriate.
----------------------------------------------------------- Now for how to break up with a girl, but make it so she doesn't totally hate you.
1. Never call or text your soon to be ex, and say that you two are done, she will think that you are too important to tell her to her face. So instead, take her for a walk around a park or garden, and tell her to her face that you don't think that things are working out.
2. Never have a friend tell your soon to be ex that you two are through, do the end part of 1 instead.
If you have any tips on this subject, post them below.
I hope that this will help out some chaps here on AG
Man up and ask her out. Shouldn't have to go through talks to figure out a relationship. ****ing middle schoolers over-complicate things. You're 14, you're not looking to marry.
I asked her last week...and anyway...today we had this 'talk...'
In the end she said that she liked me but she didn't want to go out because she deosnt want to ruin our friendship...
Which leads me to ask...If you're meant to be a friend to the girl you like before her boyfriend...how can friendship be a no reason?
A relationship can spoil a friendship by just making encounters with the ex awkward. There is a level by which you know your friends and a level by which you know your boyfriend/girlfriend. A friendship can turn into a romantic relationship, but in most cases, not all, the way you see the other person just... changes.
A relationship can spoil a friendship by just making encounters with the ex awkward. There is a level by which you know your friends and a level by which you know your boyfriend/girlfriend. A friendship can turn into a romantic relationship, but in most cases, not all, the way you see the other person just... changes.
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Very true but not applicable to all girls. I think it depends on how strong the friendship is. If your friendship is very strong then both parties will be able to look over the awkwardness. Personally I wouldn't want to lose a friend just because it felt awkward and I wouldn't pass up the chance to see if a friendship could go to the next level. Sometimes girls just say they don't want to ruin a relationship because they don't want to hurt the guy. It's another way of saying I'm sorry I don't see you in that way.
Best friends. Getting into a relationship. Ending it. One still being in love. Neither wanting to break off the friendship, but the one in love always painfully reminded of the "cannot has" when they're together. The other one knows that. Can't do anything about it.
So basically... A relationship can ruin a friendship if it doesn't work out, and it most likely will, too, unless both involved completely agree on the break-up.
It's another way of saying I'm sorry I don't see you in that way.
Can also be true.
Getting involved with friends on a level beyond friendship is something to be careful with... *has some bad experience*
