I made this thread, because I've seen a lack of emotions toward girls. I read a puberty thread on her, and it's quite obvious that some chaps on AG here, don't know how to keep a girlfriend, or how to break up with them.
Here's some tips that can help you out chaps:
1. Never make your girlfriend do anything she doesn't want to do. If you want a kiss, and she says "no", she doesn't mean maybe in a little bit. When she says "no" you'd better lay off. So never make the focus of having a girlfriend just to have someone to practice your moves on, girls are not to be used for that purpose. They are humans as well, and they have a say in what they want or will do.
2. Get to know what your girlfriend likes by asking her friends. Surprise her with her favorite candy or movie as a gift, and leave it in her locker. Girl's enjoy getting gifts, and she will like you that you take an interest in her.
Post some tips you have on this half of the subject, and make sure they are appropriate.
----------------------------------------------------------- Now for how to break up with a girl, but make it so she doesn't totally hate you.
1. Never call or text your soon to be ex, and say that you two are done, she will think that you are too important to tell her to her face. So instead, take her for a walk around a park or garden, and tell her to her face that you don't think that things are working out.
2. Never have a friend tell your soon to be ex that you two are through, do the end part of 1 instead.
If you have any tips on this subject, post them below.
I hope that this will help out some chaps here on AG
*cough* F*** your group. People who only care about the oppinion of other are flat. If there is a chance that this girl would want to be with you, justthe tiniest chance, why not grab it, and ignore the s**tbags your "friends" seem to be?
I try... I try.
You don't really know how it is... I mean, I don't care about the opinion of others. By insulted, I meant by said girl. We all seem to hate each other... Well, that is wrong.
I'm not gonna talk about my group overly much, but let's say that the group insults everybody in jest/mockery, not being "serious" but One*coughmecough* has a horrbile self-esteem and almost breaks down at every insult.
Actually, that would be a great self-esteem booster. I should do that... Have you ever seen Back to the Future? I'm like Marty... What if they say I'm no good?
A bouquet of roses + one plastic one = "I will love you until the last one dies". If this gift worked wonders for me, then it should work for you as well. I did this in person, so I have no clue how it would work indirectly... Wait, OF COURSE it WOULDN'T work, Every.Single.Gift. you give her, you give in person, who cares if you are nervous or embarrassed!?
Here's another thing you should try. Try expressing your love to her in public. This means that you aren't afraid of expressing your love, and she will like that 5x better than privately.
I mentioned this in another thread: Don't just talk to her and be nice to her, play with her a little too. Be fun and spirited about your relationship, or the whole thing will turn boring to her afterwards, and she will just call it quits on you.
Well, as long as you are not trying to kill them, if they call you a chicken.
I have had a bad self esteem for... Basically 12 years, which is since I started in kindergarden. I have never had many friends, and I tend to keep alone. In 7th grade I was bullied and beaten, which did not make it better, but since I have quite a temper, when triggered, people have told me, how much they admire me, how I can stand alone and tell what I want people to know, instead of doing like the popular kids do. Since I started in college I have been more outgoing, though still having few freinds, but it seem to get better. I am more depressed now, though. But no one is going to tell me, what I should do, who I should like and stuff like that. I am through with that.
If you are insulted or mocked by them, then just look at them, and tell them that you do not care, because you really like her. This will probably increase the mockeries, but if you stop responding, they will get the message. Or sinply ask them if they hate you. They will be puzzled and ask what you mean. Answer that you at the moment want to throw up because of their insults. Not in the mood. SOmething like that. If they do not get it, then ignore them, and keep out of the group. They will probably want you back, and stop the mockeries.
i cant really get a girlfriend becuase all of the ones that want to date me r 3-5years older than me and im 12 so lolz
I find this really hard to believe. I'm 12 and I know that if someone who is older than me asked me out, I'd say yes immediately. You know, If they were nice and stuff. Ah well, we all know it is fun to lie when no one can find out the truth.
i cant really get a girlfriend becuase all of the ones that want to date me r 3-5years older than me and im 12 so lolz
I'm 17, and my girlfriend whom I've been dating for almost two years now turns 20 this Saturday.
At the age of 12, that is definitely...not right. If you were a couple years older, say 15 or 16, and the girl you liked was a year or two older than you and still in high school, I would say go for it.
yeah...i only date girls in my grade...my mom wont let me date anyone older than me...
My parents didn't like it at first, but after she graduated from high school, we had a lot of serious talks to stay together. She stayed to take classes at the local community college and get her AA while I finished high school, but that was disrupted by her joining the military.
So, when I leave for college next Fall, she's going to transfer to the community college in Bellingham while I attend the full university to finish her AA. After that she'll transfer into my university.
As a teenager, it takes a lot of commitment to stay with someone who's almost three years older than you. I know she initially got some crap from her family about it, but I'm very mature for my age, and they like me, so it's not much of a problem.
Tip for letting em down: Dont text or email that its not working out cuz it makes you look pathetic. Dont send a friend either cuz then you'll just look like a dam pansy
Wow, and now this thread has gone from 7 to 11 since I last checked, that's quite impressive. Thank you to all who have posted ideas and thoughts for this thread.
There would be too many @'s to post, so I'll just make this general and as broad as I can make it.
Treat your girlfriend as you would yourself. You wouldn't tell yourself you're fat, so don't tell your girlfriend that she is. You also wouldn't beat yourself up, and you most certainly would never and should never beat up your girlfriend.
I hope that these tips people are posting will help you out mates, I wish you all the best of luck.
Treat your girlfriend as you would yourself. You wouldn't tell yourself you're fat, so don't tell your girlfriend that she is. You also wouldn't beat yourself up, and you most certainly would never and should never beat up your girlfriend.
Hmm, I am fat. (and on the way to underweight) And I have been ruining my knuckles on walls before, crashed my head into walls, slapped myself, bitten and scratched myself... Cut myself... I think that was it. Sooooo... "Treat you girlfriend as you would yourself"... Nah. Treat her like you would want to be with her for the rest of your life, if you are in love. If not, then why do you have a girlfriend? Besides being confussed, of course.
