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Fritz_Rublehem
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I made this thread, because I've seen a lack of emotions toward girls. I read a puberty thread on her, and it's quite obvious that some chaps on AG here, don't know how to keep a girlfriend, or how to break up with them.

Here's some tips that can help you out chaps:

1. Never make your girlfriend do anything she doesn't want to do. If you want a kiss, and she says "no", she doesn't mean maybe in a little bit. When she says "no" you'd better lay off. So never make the focus of having a girlfriend just to have someone to practice your moves on, girls are not to be used for that purpose. They are humans as well, and they have a say in what they want or will do.

2. Get to know what your girlfriend likes by asking her friends. Surprise her with her favorite candy or movie as a gift, and leave it in her locker. Girl's enjoy getting gifts, and she will like you that you take an interest in her.

Post some tips you have on this half of the subject, and make sure they are appropriate.

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Now for how to break up with a girl, but make it so she doesn't totally hate you.

1. Never call or text your soon to be ex, and say that you two are done, she will think that you are too important to tell her to her face. So instead, take her for a walk around a park or garden, and tell her to her face that you don't think that things are working out.

2. Never have a friend tell your soon to be ex that you two are through, do the end part of 1 instead.

If you have any tips on this subject, post them below.


I hope that this will help out some chaps here on AG

- Fritz_Rublehem

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Angeeel
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Juliet was like, 13 and Romeo was over 20

I did not know that, but now that I do...euw!
LiL_GaNgSta_BlAzE
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Hey sorry don't mean to intrude in your discussion but regarding the freedom of speech you do have the right to say what you want until it comes into conflict with the rights of another. For example if I say something inflammatory and it starts a riot, I went too far. If I started a mob of white supremacists and marched through the town saying racist stuff I would be legally allowed to until any violence happened.


Thats what I meant, to an Extent. Most people like to mix in the "freedom of speach" and "I have rights" to acompany their "beliefs". People get those three things mixed up, and act as if it is morelly right to do so. You can say whatever you want, but when yuo cross the line at some point, "freedom of speach" does not have your back.
Fritz_Rublehem
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I agree with Angeeel, this is getting off topic mates. So please post on topic, or take this discussion to each other's profile, and discuss it.

Thanks again to all who have posted.

Zophia
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What to do, when supposed to get over a girlfriend but being more than reluctant to do so... *rants*

Cenere
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i think it should be locked now cuz the convo is almost over

Oh, besides the new question and what that may cause (besides you)?
Really, locking is not an option, letting it die is better, because then you are sure no one wants to comment.

Sorry for off topic, but I have no answer for Zophia's question.
Fritz_Rublehem
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@Cenere, you are free to go off topic anytime you'd like mate.

It has run it's course, and I hope that it has helped you out mates.

firetail_madness
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Still, it's hard to bring the courage to, you know, well...

17dman
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Yah I my school I dont like anyone but the problem is there is a girl at another school that likes me and my friends told her that I liked her too and now I dont know what to do?

LiL_GaNgSta_BlAzE
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Yah I my school I dont like anyone but the problem is there is a girl at another school that likes me and my friends told her that I liked her too and now I dont know what to do?


Well DO you like her?
Zophia
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I feel a tiny bit ignored. And I should have been asleep hours ago, but eh.

*deletes irrelevant posts out of boredom, since they do not contribute to the thread*

skater_kid_who_pwns
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What to do, when supposed to get over a girlfriend but being more than reluctant to do so...



Well I suppose it isn't quite your fault when yo ustill feel for her. i mean once you spend a long period of time together you tend to still cling to that time i nyour life for quite a while. Eventually someone ill come along, and you will forget about that stage in your life. You cling to the past becuse you found commfort in the memories, and are reluctant to let rid of them.......
Fritz_Rublehem
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As skater kid put it quite nicely, you tend to cling onto that person that you once liked and had strong emotions for. It's like being told "no more breathing" and you really want to breath, but you can. It's kinda like that mates, but that was a metaphor.

Zophia
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You cling to the past becuse you found commfort in the memories, and are reluctant to let rid of them.......
Not really, pretty much every happy memory turned into a painful one.

Can not recommend falling in love with your best friend. If it doesn't work out, a world of pain lies ahead...

After a few months of thinking I concluded I'd just let my love for her exist however painful it remains to be, because I'd be lost without it. No kidding, not just being "romantic" or irrational.

As skater kid put it quite nicely, you tend to cling onto that person that you once liked and had strong emotions for. It's like being told "no more breathing" and you really want to breath, but you can. It's kinda like that mates, but that was a metaphor.
Because of ambiguous grammar in this paragraph I am not sure what you were trying to say.
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Wow I never knew AG could have its on therapy session. This is great. I do believe that we sometimes mistreat girls based on our opinions and I think some of us could be a little more considerate for everyone.

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Ok...Zoph...I think the only thing that you can do in this situation is find someone else to love...because I know that it is hard to get over a girl...because you love them so much and it hurts to see them gone.

I experience this from when my girlfriend dumped me for one of my best friends. This was very saddening for me...but I learn a lot about myself and how I acted from this experience. It helped me a lot...but in the end I got over her by liking someone else....

Being a moderate social status nerd (lol) I...I have a little trouble finding a girlfriend...and I believe that the main reason for this is that people would be embarressed to go out with me because they would get a lot of ridicule for it. Really, if they loved me enough, they shouldn't care...but teenagers dont realise this...and they just want to be popular.

BTW Blaze...from a whiile ago, it was Bratt02 who was actually a girl, not Bratt09...that user does not exist.

KingRyan

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