ForumsThe TavernWhat (socially) makes a boy become a man?

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thoadthetoad
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Well, I saw this topic was locked, so I decided to remake it, because I think it's a good topic. However, lemme set a ground rule so this does not get locked again.

DON'T SPAM OR BE OFF TOPIC.
DON'T THINK OF STUPID WAYS OF "becoming a man".
DON'T BASH OTHER PEOPLE.
DON'T LAUGH AT ANY THEORIES OF "becoming a man".

Now then, what I think makes a dude (I say dude, not boy) turn into a man, is when the dude loses his virginity to a girl who is not paid for. lol.

If said dude doth not lose virginity to a real person who didn't need to be bought over, then they must be gentle, kind, respectful to people who are applicable, and stay in school.

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Qwerty001
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My friends dubbed me a man when I took a punch to the face like it didn't hurt...

dacer
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why do people lie so much online?

it always hurts when i get punched in the face, but it usually lowers our student count by 1.

Lynoth
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I believe that a man becomes a man when he realizes it doesn't matter, when he realizes that he is who he is and becoming a "man" won't change that.

Merciless_Mercenary
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So if a boy becomes a man by losing his virginity to a girl without paying for it what makes a girl a woman? losing her virginity to?

supersmiley
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uh...im not real sure how to answer that...but i think it duznt because becoming a man (or a woman) has nothing to do with...that sort of stuff...it has to do with how responisble you become and personal changes

Lige
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So if a boy becomes a man by losing his virginity to a girl without paying for it what makes a girl a woman? losing her virginity to?


when she learns to cook and clean and not speak when the man is speaking.
yz125
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this is not some thing to be talking about on this site theres girls that play on this site to and reading the stuff you guys write about becomeing a man and if lige i feel totaly discusted about what you wrote thats not what becoing a man takes and if you think that then you must not be a man. you dont treat a girl with disrespect and if you dont know that rule then your not a man yet. but thats not the only rule about becoming a man. theres other stuff that should not be said.

Merciless_Mercenary
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when she learns to cook and clean and not speak when the man is speaking.


*looks down and shakes head*

this is not some thing to be talking about on this site theres girls that play on this site to and reading the stuff you guys write about becomeing a man and if lige i feel totaly discusted about what you wrote thats not what becoing a man takes and if you think that then you must not be a man. you dont treat a girl with disrespect and if you dont know that rule then your not a man yet. but thats not the only rule about becoming a man. theres other stuff that should not be said.


I second that.
supersmiley
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@Merciless_mercenary
yeah but this thread is bout guys!!!

Lynoth
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when she learns to cook and clean and not speak when the man is speaking.

lol Not really very appropriate, but lol.

And you shouldn't treat a woman differently then a man (depending on you relationship and your sexual orientation). If a man punched you, and you would punch him back, then you should be able to punch a woman that punched you.
knight_34
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lol Not really very appropriate, but lol.

And you shouldn't treat a woman differently then a man (depending on you relationship and your sexual orientation). If a man punched you, and you would punch him back, then you should be able to punch a woman that punched you.


Yep, I agree but you have to consider than punching a woman in the face wouldn't be appropriate.

Now this thread is about how a boy becomes a man, not how a girl becomes a woman. If you want to discuss that then go make another thread.

when she learns to cook and clean and not speak when the man is speaking.


You look somewhat sexist Lige.

I think that a boy becomes a man when

1. The person mentally and emotionally matured.
2. Capable of supporting himself (not including people with disabilities)

Now just because you get a job or get married that doesn't really mean that you are fully matured but most people are matured by then.
Lynoth
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Yep, I agree but you have to consider than punching a woman in the face wouldn't be appropriate.

That's true, but my point actually was if you won't hurt a woman then you shouldn't be able to hurt a man, even though I phrased it differently.
knight_34
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That's true, but my point actually was if you won't hurt a woman then you shouldn't be able to hurt a man, even though I phrased it differently.


That's agreed.
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So if a boy becomes a man by losing his virginity to a girl without paying for it what makes a girl a woman? losing her virginity to?


When she learns that in the long run implants are better then stuffing.

Once she obtains that sort of logic, she is a women.
Ricador
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Even if that someone is a 6 year old boy?


Why did that thought even cross you're mind?
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