Ok i had sex when i was 11...i know its a really young age to loose your virginity but i did so...but now that im sixteen i guess after the years went by having sex is just like playing poker you dont know what card your gonna get when its dealt but you already know what the card look like when their turnt over...
but ive had sex at all ages 11 n up but for people who havent had sex yet this is for you...
Always use a condom and if your not sure about your feelings with that person then dont do it plane and simple, but if that person is forcing you then tell them straight up NO im not ready.
I know its a a bit hipicritical for me to say wait when i didnt but its not bout me its about you and your purity......lol what am i talking about if you think your ready then do it, if not then dont do it!!!
another way of putting it is .... dont have sex till you are married, then you know that the person you are going to have sex wit is the one you want to be wit the rest of your life *or untill you get a divors*
Personally I think the "wait till you're married" is a bunch of religious crap, but I do respect that some people feel that is the right way to do it and does not feel the need to do stuff before they have found the one they want to spend the rest of their life with.
If that's the way you wanna go, just make sure sex isn't too important for you, 'cause if you don't do it till you've found the person you wanna be with in every other aspect (there's a lot more to relationships than sex), then that person might turn out to be horrible in bed, or you might, and neither of you will ever have good sex. If sex isn't important to you, that isn't a problem. If it is, then it can become a huge issue.
Personally I think the "wait till you're married" is a bunch of religious crap, but I do respect that some people feel that is the right way to do it and does not feel the need to do stuff before they have found the one they want to spend the rest of their life with.
Straight Edges think that way... I mean real stragth edges don't do sex stuff without true feelings, whcich leads close to marriage... Aaaaaah they're fun... I'm joking, I respect it.