Ask away in here. Before you all go accusing me of being some loser, just don't. I know I'm not the girl master, but I do know a lot about them, why they do certain things that they do, so on and so forth. So don't be shy =D
I just want her to realize the truth about her boyfriend.
You told her what you found out, and you did your part. Like Cenere said, if you keep pushing the issue then she will get really annoyed with you. Focus on the positives in your life right now as you need to be a passive character in your ex's life right now. Don't push the issue any more with her. She will see you are a true friend eventually.
yeah, i probably need to back off and jst let things roll. *sigh* its hard seeing someone you care for going into a bad situation =(
It is really hard, but if you try to help them, you most likely will just be dragged into the mud and not help at all, and that will make both of you miserable (speaking from experience here). You cannot stop worry, I know that, but let her handle it, since she is sure she can. If she end up dropping it all, you will be one of the first she will come to.
and also.. I need help from anyone Im really mixed up
see the boyfriend I was telling you bout, broke up wit me sunday he left 2 messages on my cell, I called him over and over again... then that night we talked and he said that he dont want me to leave him, and begged me to give him a second chance. so I did, then on tuesday we were texting and he said that he cant see us together anymore.... then we talked on facebook... then he said that he wasnts nothing more than for us to be together, and I see him friday ....
but what do I do, I dont wanna breakup wit him, but I can ride these rollercoasters.. I love him so much, my frinds say leave him, then some say dont.... what do you all think ??
Wowzers, you break up, back together, break up, back together.. im confused lol
I would say, meet him in person and talk about it. If you truly want to be with him then maybe you might need to just give him some time. It sounds to me that he might just be unsure about it. ask him if theres anything else going on, it could be that something has happened or he might just be really stressed atm
Ok chek it out im sure you know what you have to do which is go up to him and ask him do you want to be together? then tell him how you feel how you just said you love him and all that tell him that. Also (contains harshness/ not meant to offend) you fukin crazy if you think he's about to break up with you yall gonna go out...so listen to your(very corny)Heart! OMG that sounded gay.NO HOMO...but yeah think about what you plan to say to him and let it all out and through a dam in ther if you can ok...and cry to make him feel guilty.
First off, as everyone says, you need to talk to him in person. It is very very easy to read peoples texts/IMs incorrectly and take them the wrong way. You need to have a heart to heart with him. I don't know if you are aware of why there was a breakup in the first place... if you don't you need to discuss that. Ask him what's going on in his life, and why he doesn't think he can picture you together. It will be a tough conversation, but it needs to happen. Do not hold back your feelings and opinions, let him know everything that you are thinking. There is nothing wrong with taking a break to think about priorities or deal with other things. Just remember Shyla, this is not the end of the world! Best of luck!
now I have a problem... he wont answer my calls. i have called and left messages... im go scared, I love him so much.. this is all over a stupid church
now I have a problem... he wont answer my calls. i have called and left messages... im go scared, I love him so much.. this is all over a stupid church
Just give him some time Shyla. You've been dating for a year now, and he isn't just going to start ignoring you now. It seems like he just needs to figure somethings out for himself first, and then I am sure he will talk to you. He might be so confused that he doesn't even know what to tell you.
Just give him some time Shyla. You've been dating for a year now, and he isn't just going to start ignoring you now. It seems like he just needs to figure somethings out for himself first, and then I am sure he will talk to you. He might be so confused that he doesn't even know what to tell you.
exactly, so, let him have some time to relax, to cool of a bit, then ask him to meet you somewhere and talk to him in person.
when your talking with him, be truthful about how you feel about him. let him know your emotions and that you truly love him.
P.S. Shyla, im sure everythign will be just fine =) trust me on this, ive been the guy in this kind of situation before. Everythign will turn out fine
thank you everyone... im still scared, but Im just gonna leave it. Im not sure if I get to see him tomorow or now. but If I do I sill be truthful.
Oh and Bjiscuit, its over a church, cause im going to a church that he does not what me going to. I told him I would leave right when I can drive, but I guess he wants me out now.
