Ask away in here. Before you all go accusing me of being some loser, just don't. I know I'm not the girl master, but I do know a lot about them, why they do certain things that they do, so on and so forth. So don't be shy =D
Oh and Bjiscuit, its over a church, cause im going to a church that he does not what me going to. I told him I would leave right when I can drive, but I guess he wants me out now.
Are you going because your parents are making you? If that's the case, maybe you can find a compromise.
Are you going because your parents are making you? If that's the case, maybe you can find a compromise
yes and no, my parents said I dont have to go, but they want me to go, so to keep peace I go, I told him that when I can drive though I would go to church wit him.....
I think that sounds very reasonable Shyla. Once your bf gets over his emotional turmoil I am sure you can discuss the problem and find a happy solution together. He must realize, especially only dating only one year and still being a teenager, that as you live under your parents room you need to follow their rules. If there is a conflict between your bf and your parents, in this stage of your life you have to pick your parents request. Hopefully he can understand that.
He should try to understand you keeping the peace with your parents. Having a good relationship with family should be more important than that of a significant other. Sometimes it's hard for a boyfriend to see that though. Like the others have said, give him time. He'll come around.
You should also try spending more time with him and your parents at the same time. He will see your great relationship with your family and maybe develop his own...
He may hate this idea at first, but if he gets uncomfortable, just tell him that your family will care less for him if he is too shy and awkward around him.
How long have you been 16? Probably a pretty long time, if you are still 16. Do you have a permit yet?
I got my permit, and i b driven by december....
You should also try spending more time with him and your parents at the same time.
what sucks is , that when my parents hurt me, I go to him, I cry 2 him, so he knows how much they really hurt me, so im not sure if he would want to or now :/ ... something i did notice is... MY LIFE IS LIKE TWILIGHT !!!!
but anyways. You should really talk to him about you two being together and how you feel for him. Then you can start talking about other aspects of your lives. Take care of one thing at a time
I think that sounds very reasonable Shyla. Once your bf gets over his emotional turmoil I am sure you can discuss the problem and find a happy solution together. He must realize, especially only dating only one year and still being a teenager, that as you live under your parents room you need to follow their rules. If there is a conflict between your bf and your parents, in this stage of your life you have to pick your parents request. Hopefully he can understand that.
I agree. My parents say that to me always when i don't want to listen to them. They say that if i want to do things my way, i should do them in my own house not theirs.
Even though you go crying to your bf about your family (I do that too sometimes), you still need to have both the bf and the family get along. I don't think your parents and bf chillin/bonding will solve this particular issue, but it will defiantly be a good thing to do to help you in the future (especially as you seem to plan for this to be a serious relationship).
what sucks is , that when my parents hurt me, I go to him, I cry 2 him, so he knows how much they really hurt me, so im not sure if he would want to or now
It doesn't sound like you have a great relationship with your family. If that is what you are trying to prove to him, it will not be an easy thing to do.
