Ask away in here. Before you all go accusing me of being some loser, just don't. I know I'm not the girl master, but I do know a lot about them, why they do certain things that they do, so on and so forth. So don't be shy =D
I think we just define the term gf/bf differently. Some of us, like myself & Bjiscuit, consider a bf/gf one that you are seriously dating. Others, like Hoodie and one of my roommates for example, consider them a person you date possibly even once or just randomly hooked-up with (maybe even just making out). Also, some people (espeically when your a teenager) just don't want to settle into a long term ordeal and hence just float around flirting/going on a date with one person and then another. I wouldn't exactly say relationships have gone down the toilet, but some of us clearly have a different definition for a relationship.
Girls are impossible to understand...for u who think u understand them 1 advice: UR SOOOOOO WRONG rofl
You could say the same thing for any irrational person. Most of us guys just don't know how a girl thinks because we either a, think we already know what they think or b, never have asked them.
OK. HOW DO I FIND OUT IF THIS GIRL I LIKE LIKES ME BACK? WITHOUT ASKING AND RISKING LOOKING LIKE A FOOL IN FRONT OF MY FRIENDS?
You dont need all caps...
anyways, one of the many ways you can try is just ask her. if you reall ylike her you wont mind actin like a fool infront of your friends. Pay attention to the ways she act around you.
Unfortunately there is no way to find out if someone is interested in you without any risk involved. You can sneakily ask around to her friends, but you never know if the answer you get is truth. If you truly like this girl and would like to be more than friends, then you need to ask you herself (face-to-face). Sadly there is no magic wand or simple way to find out otherwise. You have to ask her, and the answer could be know. But life will continue after and maybe she will change her mind/ you will get a new crush, tho...on the other hand she might say yes!!! If you think she is worth it, then I totally recommend taking the risk.
(If only I had a dollar every time that this question has been asked...)