[Necro]If you have a question about girls...

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Peasant

Posted May 6, '10 3:06pm UTC

You bring up some interesting points Fallen Sky. There is one thing that I want to mention from s girl's point of view:

Girls cannot contend themselves with few, they always have to have more and better, which is kind of the contrary on the boys side.

I have seen this exact same need for "more" with guys and girls. So... I wouldn't say that it is contrary on the boys side. I have seen numerous occasions where some really nice girl's hearts were broken by a guy who was seeking something better. They did not even care about how their actions affected these girls. Sure, girls tend to get the reputation for being materialistic (though I happen to be an exception- more like you, just wanting a place to live and food to eat). But in life, guys also exhibit the need to get the bigger and better. So... I just want to point out that in my experience there is a two way street.

In regards to Bjiscuit-- you have been having lots of trouble with this girl for a LONG time. I know you care about her, but the more you try to get her to "see the light" in her relationships/actions the more she will get angry with you. I think some major space is necessary. As Fallen Sky states, "burn the bridge." But don't worry, it doesn't have to be permanent. Now that you will be moving away for the summer/a good amount of time, I think this would be a great time to leave her be and give her space. Focus on how wonderful your current girlfriend is! She clearly deserves more time and effort than the girl that wants none of your time!

Chin up Bjiscuit! It will be solved in due time!

You bring up some interesting points Fallen Sky.  There is one thing that I want to mention from s girl's point of view:\r\n\r\n[quote]Girls cannot contend themselves with few, they always have to have more and better, which is kind of the contrary on  the boys side.[/quote]\r\n\r\nI have seen this exact same need for "more" with guys and girls.  So... I wouldn't say that it is contrary on the boys side.  I have seen numerous occasions where some really nice girl's hearts were broken by a guy who was seeking something better.  They did not even care about how their actions affected these girls.  Sure, girls tend to get the reputation for being materialistic (though I happen to be an exception- more like you, just wanting a place to live and food to eat).  But in life, guys also exhibit the need to get the bigger and better.  So... I just want to point out that in my experience there is a two way street.\r\n\r\nIn regards to Bjiscuit-- you have been having lots of trouble with this girl for a LONG time.  I know you care about her, but the more you try to get her to "see the light" in her relationships/actions the more she will get angry with you.  I think some major space is necessary.  As Fallen Sky states, "burn the bridge."  But don't worry, it doesn't have to be permanent.  Now that you will be moving away for the summer/a good amount of time, I think this would be a great time to leave her be and give her space.  Focus on how wonderful your current girlfriend is!  She clearly deserves more time and effort than the girl that wants none of your time!\r\n\r\nChin up Bjiscuit!  It will be solved in due time! ;)

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Bjiscuit

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Posted May 6, '10 3:23pm UTC

what is english word for grabing girl's ***

Bakka... leave =/

Bjiscuit, I think that you should ask her if it was intentionnal, if so, even though she would have done it to get your attention or because she '' loves you'', there're to be better way to do it no?

I believe it was intentional, i might aswell say what happened,

I still kinda had feelings for her, and i tol dher one night that i still rly liekd her, and she said the same to me, this went on for a few nights, then i decided to ask her if she really meant it, and she says, "I like you just as a friend, i actually like someone else."

and no, i did not mistake what kind of "lke" she meant when she said she really likes me.

In regards to Bjiscuit-- you have been having lots of trouble with this girl for a LONG time.

Hell yeah..

Now that you will be moving away for the summer/a good amount of time, I think this would be a great time to leave her be and give her space.

Freeeeedooooom lol. yeah its probably for the best

Focus on how wonderful your current girlfriend is! She clearly deserves more time and effort than the girl that wants none of your time!

True, as usual, tray has all the answers to my dillema's lol

[quote]what is english word for grabing girl's ***\r\n[/quote]\r\n\r\nBakka... leave =/\r\n\r\n[quote]Bjiscuit, I think that you should ask her if it was intentionnal, if so, even though she would have done it to get your attention or because she '' loves you'', there're to be better way to do it no?[/quote]\r\n\r\nI believe it was intentional, i might aswell say what happened,\r\n\r\nI still kinda had feelings for her, and i tol dher one night that i still rly liekd her, and she said the same to me, this went on for a few nights, then i decided to ask her if she really meant it, and she says,  "I like you just as a friend, i actually like someone else."\r\n\r\nand no, i did not mistake what kind of "lke" she meant when she said she really likes me. \r\n\r\n[quote]In regards to Bjiscuit-- you have been having lots of trouble with this girl for a LONG time.[/quote]\r\n\r\nHell yeah..\r\n\r\n\r\n[quote]Now that you will be moving away for the summer/a good amount of time, I think this would be a great time to leave her be and give her space. [/quote]\r\n\r\nFreeeeedooooom lol. yeah its probably for the best\r\n\r\n[quote]Focus on how wonderful your current girlfriend is!  She clearly deserves more time and effort than the girl that wants none of your time![/quote]\r\n\r\nTrue, as usual, tray has all the answers to my dillema's lol

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Haku1234567890

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Nomad

Posted May 6, '10 8:55pm UTC

Bakka... leave =/

no...I really want to know...

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mrgigglepants

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Nomad

Posted May 6, '10 10:31pm UTC

girls r evil they screw with yer mind, watch you be confused, and then the let you ask em out..

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Bjiscuit

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Posted May 6, '10 10:54pm UTC

Look, if you people will not be serious, then please leave, your unwanted company.

no...I really want to know...

your not being serious or even asking a real question, your just being a smartass.

girls r evil they screw with yer mind, watch you be confused, and then the let you ask em out..

Is not a question or helping answer someones question, is irrelevant, please leave or act slightly more mature.

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tgregor3

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Posted May 7, '10 12:28am UTC

ok everyone on here dont listen to anything these people are saying, its not a good move, you gotta find things out for yourself, gotta be unique, and the only way to do that is figure stuff out on your own.

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Bjiscuit

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Nomad

Posted May 7, '10 12:36am UTC

ok everyone on here dont listen to anything these people are saying, its not a good move, you gotta find things out for yourself, gotta be unique, and the only way to do that is figure stuff out on your own.

we've had this conversation so many times now, I'm not going to argue with you about this, all I will say, is go back and actually read through this thread, also, do you even have any xpierience? or are you just expecting us to take your word for it?

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trayzrulz

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Peasant

Posted May 7, '10 12:42am UTC

Obviously the person at hand should make their own choice on how to act, but there is nothing wrong with a group discussion/ gathering opinions.

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tgregor3

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Nomad

Posted May 7, '10 1:43am UTC

i got alot of experiance, one time i tried asking for help from my friends and iv notice if u do what u thinks best it turns out btr

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FallenSky

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Posted May 7, '10 4:13am UTC

Euuuuf...common people bjiscuit is asking something quite simple here. If you had your heart broken would you like folks on internet threads to mess around with its pieces, grow up and at least try to bear with him, don't act all *yo yo mak dis mak dat goda be de king ofta plaaaaccceee*. Read through his story and post stuff relative to it...its situation like these that gets people disgusted of the internet communities so please make an effort or start a thread called: yo yo mak dis mak dat goda be de king ofta plaaaaccceee
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Now. I don't think you should cut all bridges with her, but I seriously think that you don't deserve such treatment. Nobody does. You should ask her what is wrong, what is it with this attitude of hers. If she's conscious of all the pain she's inflicting to you and won't want to stop, it may be for the best that you toss her out of your life...as sad as it sounds...

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FallenSky

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Posted May 7, '10 4:14am UTC

And greg, may I ask you to use understandable grammar as of now, it is quite bothersome to read you posts...

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Bjiscuit

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Nomad

Posted May 7, '10 3:34pm UTC

Oh great, last night went well, she tried to tell me a bunchj of bs, and she was sincere about it i guess. but i can't believe her when I KNOW that certain thigns she said are not true.

I do like her and i do want to be friends with her, but at the same time, the longer i continue to care the more i get hurt.

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kirby1243

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Nomad

Posted May 7, '10 3:41pm UTC

What does a girl feel when she is on her period?

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M00CH

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Nomad

Posted May 7, '10 6:49pm UTC

ummm, well there's a computer right in front of you, do some research?

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Haku1234567890

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Nomad

Posted May 7, '10 7:04pm UTC

your not being serious or even asking a real question, your just being a smartass.

you know english, can't you just answer, I'm shure there is word for that in english...It is not real question? I want to know answer so yea, it is real question

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