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snipershot325
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Sexual addiction is a pattern of sexual behaviours that are out of control and continue despite negative consequences. As in other addictions, changes in brain chemistry are at the core of the addiction. In sex addiction, the changes are caused by sexual behavior and fantasizing about sex or romantic activities. Sex addiction is a process addiction because no chemicals are taken into the body. Chemical changes occur in the body because of the addicts behaviours. Any sexual activity that causes changes in body chemistry can become and addiction. Even on-line romances become addictive when they are a substitute for reality or a way to escape reality.


Sex addiction..anyone know of anyone that has a sex addiction?Its terrible!
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snazzy777
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Addiction occurs because a person has a "hole" in their soul that they want to fill. Whether it be addiction to; food, alcohol, sex, drugs etc ... Sex addicts are trying to find love that wasnt given to them as, for example, a child.

Nater
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My friends dad was sex addict so his parents got divorced.

snipershot325
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As snazzy777 said sex addicts are trying to fill a "void" for sometihng they never got

Whether it be addiction to; food, alcohol, sex, drugs etc
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As snazzy777 said sex addicts are trying to fill a "void" for sometihng they never got


There is a lot more to addiction then just trying to fill a void. Often there is a real physical effect in the brain causing the addiction. Basically your brain will be fooled into thinking it needs the stimulus it's getting to survive.
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Just something to consider on the controversy of sex addiction.

From psychology wiki.

Controversy

There are many people and organizations who do not acknowledge sexual addiction as a valid form of addiction. There is an argument as to whether the term has any true meaning for describing human sexual behavior. Many view sexual addiction as an excuse for acting out in this fashion. Other distinctions are difficult to make in a clinical sense, as in between promiscuity and sexual addiction as the main difference lies within the motivation of the act.

Other interpretations of sexual addiction (other than addiction): a compulsion, an impulse control disorder, a sexual desire disorder, a lack of morals and willpower, a form of obsessive compulsive disorder, a disease.

Those who do recognize sexual addiction often equate it to food, gambling addiction, and shopping addictions, where an outside substance isn't used to create the "high."


There is also more there.
http://psychology.wikia.com/wiki/Sexual_addiction#Controversy_2
snazzy777
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There is a lot more to addiction then just trying to fill a void. Often there is a real physical effect in the brain causing the addiction. Basically your brain will be fooled into thinking it needs the stimulus it's getting to survive


It is true that there is a physical aspect, possibly hormonal imbalances, but the root of the addiction comes from psychological reasons. Because the psychological aspect is so powerful, yes, it may begin to affect one's physical being ...
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If I could type one word and not get flamed: STRANGE?

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It is true that there is a physical aspect, possibly hormonal imbalances, but the root of the addiction comes from psychological reasons. Because the psychological aspect is so powerful, yes, it may begin to affect one's physical being.


The whole thing works on electrochemical reactions. You flood the brain with enough of a certain type of chemical it becomes use to those levels are regards it as normal, resulting in the addiction. This can happen either through natural processes such as with sex addictions or through artificially induces processes such as taking drugs.

as you can tell i am a very religious person and believe that abstinance is the only way to go


Actually your song sounds more like you have a fetish with anal and oral sex.
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Sex Addiction isn't a real thing.

MageGrayWolf
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Sex Addiction isn't a real thing.


What makes you say that?
Kevin4762
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What makes you say that?
[quote]That's like saying I'm addicting to food, breathing, water, sleep, and urinating.

You can't be addicted to one of most basic needs.
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Wow thats stupid, you don't need sex. Sex in a way is like a drug. It puts you into a trance, its a good feeling. The addiction comes from an excess of Libido or sexual desire, thats your sex drive. Its a physical and mental desire to have sex. Again I naturally know some about this because I actually have this addiction...I understand it sounds dumb. My therapist said that pornography at least reduces the possibility that I'm gonna snap and molest or rape someone.

Kevin4762
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Wow thats stupid, you don't need sex. Sex in a way is like a drug. It puts you into a trance, its a good feeling. The addiction comes from an excess of Libido or sexual desire, thats your sex drive. Its a physical and mental desire to have sex. Again I naturally know some about this because I actually have this addiction...I understand it sounds dumb. My therapist said that pornography at least reduces the possibility that I'm gonna snap and molest or **** someone.


Without sex, you wouldn't be alive. Without sex, the human race wouldn't exist. Sex gives you pleasure as a reward for keeping your species alive. You NEED sex. You can't live WITHOUT sex, or else you're not human.

Keeton, YOU sound dumb.
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Kevin4762, you don't need to bash Keeton. You're argument is pretty invalid. Saying that you cannot be addicted to something just because it's a basic need or drive, does not mean you cannot be addicted to it.
Is a 500 pound person addicted to food? When someone who is grossly obese eats, there is a physical release of endorphins, many of which are also released during sexual activity. You need food, you can be addicted to food. You need sex, but you can be chemically addicted to sex.

Calling people dumb because you don't want something to be true is kind of foolish.

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SonofZion77,

Are you addicted to food? To you crave it three times a day? Does it satisfy you? Does breathing satisfy you? You do it hundreds of times a day. Do you enjoy sleeping? I sure do. Maybe I'm addicted to sleeping.

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