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Savingthedream14
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I see tons of threads with people saying that they are in love, and some saying that they will never get over it. And in those threads there are older people telling the thread maker, that is usually a younger person, that they aren't really in love because they are too young to know what that means.

Well I'm a little short on time, anyways I'll get to the point. What are your opinions on which age you can fall in love.

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allright88
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There is no age limit for love when we are a baby we love our parents right?
but we get naughty abilities when we are 12-14+

wajor59
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You are old enough when you know the difference between having a strong physical attraction for the person versus true love. This can come at any age but waiting for it is worth the wait!

escartian
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Well firstly
I do not believe it is possible to "fall in love."
Falling in love implies that you suddenly love a person (hence the word fall) and it is not possible to suddenly love a person (it just won't be real love)
That aside, there isn't any real age but most people until the teenage years only love their family, and then the may or may not start to "fall" in love.
In my opinion to truly love a person you need to know them for at least a few years, that way you understand who they are not just how they look.
A definition of love from dictionary.com

â"noun
1.
a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.
2.
a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.
3.
sexual passion or desire.
4.
a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart.
5.
(used in direct address as a term of endearment, affection, or the like): Would you like to see a movie, love?
6.
a love affair; an intensely amorous incident; amour.
7.
sexual intercourse; copulation.
8.
(initial capital letter) a personification of sexual affection, as Eros or Cupid.
9.
affectionate concern for the well-being of others: the love of one's neighbor.
10.
strong predilection, enthusiasm, or liking for anything: her love of books.
11.
the object or thing so liked: The theater was her great love.
12.
the benevolent affection of god for His creatures, or the reverent affection due from them to God.
13.
Chiefly Tennis. a score of zero; nothing.
14.
a word formerly used in communications to represent the letter L.
â"verb (used with object)
15.
to have love or affection for: All her pupils love her.
16.
to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for (another person).
17.
to have a strong liking for; take great pleasure in: to love music.
18.
to need or require; benefit greatly from: Plants love sunlight.
19.
to embrace and kiss (someone), as a lover.
20.
to have sexual intercourse with.

So it depends on what type of love are you talking about (1, 5 or 20?)
OmniNerd
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I think the obvious answer is 42.

....no, I was not being serious. Hitchhiker's Guide ftw :P

Avorne
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Love doesn't exist - it's just another human-made response to outside stimuli and inner desire to find a mate.

coldplaya
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42 Lol!

Love is what you think is love. Love can have different forms.

Renjineon
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i say 27

sounds about right

sickcroon
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There is a huge line between love and lust.


Maybe so. But there is a very thin line between love and infatuation, a lot of times infatuation is completely confused with love. You apparently have never had a stalker before.

I do not believe it is possible to "fall in love."
Falling in love implies that you suddenly love a person (hence the word fall) and it is not possible to suddenly love a person (it just won't be real love)


This is very debatable. "Example", My grandfather fell in love with my grandmother the second he saw her, which sounds very much like a fairy tale. One week later they got married. They have been married now for 50 years last year. In the long run whether they fell in love or fell into some kind of infatuation with one another didn't really matter.

Love doesn't exist - it's just another human-made response to outside stimuli and inner desire to find a mate.


I wouldn't say it doesn't exist. I would say love is kind of like a faith. It exists if people believe in it. Or it's like life in general, it's a branch of your perception.

To answer the question, "how old do you have to be to fall in love?"
I don't believe there is an age limit for falling in love. Once you are able to feel love for somebody I suppose that's the age for you. Whether it is a mature love is another story. You will gain a better grasp and understanding of love as you experience different types of love.
Graham
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Thiiiiissssssss old.

http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj146/grahaam/thismuch.png

I didn't know there were age requirements for emotions...

Peek
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You only have to be five. Maybe younger. See this book.

Kyouzou
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A few years ago my family life teacher was talking to us about the difference between lust and love and here's what he told us:

Say you have a girlfriend who you 'love' now lets say she gets into an accident, where all her hair's been burned off, she has 3rd degree burns over 90% of her body. She will have heavy scarring for the rest of her life.

The deciding factor:

Are you still willing to spend the rest of your life with this woman? That is the difference between the two.

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Say you have a girlfriend who you 'love' now lets say she gets into an accident, where all her hair's been burned off, she has 3rd degree burns over 90% of her body. She will have heavy scarring for the rest of her life.

Nope I'm not in love. If that happened with any of the people I like I would say C'ya and leave. Yepppp
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Say you have a girlfriend who you 'love' now lets say she gets into an accident, where all her hair's been burned off, she has 3rd degree burns over 90% of her body. She will have heavy scarring for the rest of her life.


I'd still like my girl. She wouldn't be as pretty but that's not why I like her.
th100
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You can be in love anytime you want. Period.

halogunner
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when you understand the meaning of the word

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