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Savingthedream14
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I see tons of threads with people saying that they are in love, and some saying that they will never get over it. And in those threads there are older people telling the thread maker, that is usually a younger person, that they aren't really in love because they are too young to know what that means.

Well I'm a little short on time, anyways I'll get to the point. What are your opinions on which age you can fall in love.

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SubZero131
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Say you have a girlfriend who you 'love' now lets say she gets into an accident, where all her hair's been burned off, she has 3rd degree burns over 90% of her body. She will have heavy scarring for the rest of her life.


if it were a girl that shared common interests and we all ready talked alot then i would still have a wonderful person to converse with.
Moe
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Say you have a girlfriend who you 'love' now lets say she gets into an accident, where all her hair's been burned off, she has 3rd degree burns over 90% of her body. She will have heavy scarring for the rest of her life.


I see looks as more of a bonus and not a requirement. Though I will admit looks usually draw me in, but I won't stay interested unless there is something for my mind to be attracted to.
Kyouzou
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Exactly the point guys, if you are only lusting after said girl/woman then like Saving did, you would be 'outta there'. For you too stay with her, shows a level of commitment that only comes with love. Or at least that's what he said. Personally I base it upon, when you find your self, changing yourself to keep your significant other out of harm.

nevetsthereaper
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changing yourself, now im not sure thats a healthy relationship. but anyway, looks are only as important as you make them, i know plenty of cosmetically unatractive girls, who are most likely better off, because they spent their time doing homework in high school and not having sex in the bathroom. i think love needs to be something that you worry about when you are financilly able to spend time with that person, so you can really get to know them. wait a while, then take it slow progressively, try hanging out a lot, living with them, eating with them, shopping with them, sleeping(as in SLEEPING) with them. and most importantly, sex is not a bad thing, but try to not get blinded by beaver so to speak. all in all, i don't think there is an age limit on being in love, but being ready for love, thats a whole other beast.

Saving123
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Yep totally outta there. Anyways I think its definitely the eyes that draw me in first. The eyes are the door to the soul or something like that. So far I'm not in love. I've seen a lot of people that are great looking, and I totally just talked to them and joked with them, flirted, just because of their eyes. Not love lust. Personal experience.

Assassin2war
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Love does not know age or limitations

SirLegendary
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love is only realised at the age of 13 when you know already

Efan
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when you understand it

ExboMarker
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8 year old can't fall in love, but a 17 year old could.

XXAlienGirlXX
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8 year old can't fall in love, but a 17 year old could.



Sorry, but I dont agree with you on that.
shayneii
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There is no definition of love.

Therefore it is whenever you want. But when you are young you think you're in love. You probably won't think so a year later.

But when you find it, cherish it. [/cheesy closing line]

goumas13
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The important is knowing the age of the person with whom you are in love.

1337Player
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I'll have to agree with shayneii here. You might have "loved" someone when you were 8 or something but a few years later when you've moved on you realize there was no real reason for liking that person.

Joe96
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Whenever I guess, unless you mean something deeper.

Protofai
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As old as you have to be without wanting to dick a person on the street.

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