I know there's the "Hey do you like me" way, but then when people are approached directly they lie, and this makes me angry. How can I get an honest answer form the person that I like? I asked, but then said person said no. And How do I know if said person really doesn't like me or doesn't want to say so in front of said persons friends.
Yeah I know I said "said person" a lot, but I apologize.
It may seem old fashioned, but it worked for me best friend a few years ago, and now she's happily married. I wrote a letter explaining my feelings to a good friend of mine. He's moving on Saturday, and I know this was my last chance to tell him. I'm going to see him tomorrow, and I plan on giving it to him when we're done with our date. I'm curious as to how this will turn out...
How you would know if she really likes you? Well you could touch her arm when you talk to her and see how she react. Also when she spent a lot of time with you and want to see you often it's a good sign.
But i wouldn't ask her if she likes you in front of her friends. You have to do it alone, but it can help if you say your feelings first.
an other option is to ask a friend of hers, but this is a bit risky, because she can tell it to her friend etc.
So i would say just spit out your feelings to her and look her into the eyes. Like magegraywolf said, you should see her answer in her body language. You can also watch her body language when you are just talking to her and looking in her eyes. Does she blush? Is she looking away from you shyly? or does she look annoyed?
I think you should look for the signs, rather than confronting them directly as they are probably too nervous to tell you if they actually do like you. I'm not exactly an expert, but the signs are just stuff like: prolonged eye contact, the person just wanting to spend time with you etc. And girls sometimes like, touch your arm and stuff quite a lot. I think Hope that helps.
Thanks Zoph. Finally somebody that figured it out the other people were a little bit slower with the whol triangle thing. And the fact that if everbody in the triangle was straight then it wouldn't be a triangle. So no advice much?
Although even though it goes A like B, B likes C, C likes A, it probably will not work the other way around...
Well, in a threesome everyone wins. Also, I'm assuming he is a guy, and the other two are girls, so in fact both girls win, and he double wins. I mean, you're getting with two girls at the same time, chances are you're not in a relationship with both of them anyways. Well, unless you're mormon.
Guy liking second guy who likes girl who likes first guy? Well, if you could all work it out, it'd be cool. Just sounds unlikely. Someone's probably gonna end up being hurt.
Sorry to tell you, but erm.. No usually means no. Maybe she wants to be friends. o.o
Most of the girls I know are pretty terrible at lying, (I am too.. but I don't really lie to begin with.. >.< so unless its extremely obvious.. sorry. :/
