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ArtemisDragon
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Hey AG i know this is stooping low but im gonna ask a girl out this valentines day and i have no idea wat 2 do?

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DeadlyVelociraptor
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^ yeah... And not the "She's nice so I guess she likes me" the real signs...

Use the pick up lines! Its super effective*!

But again, maybe you should do something big, so everyone can know*

JK!!!

In all truth* sense, just improvise... Can't think of any more you can really do.

*Lie, don't trust me

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Yeah, you should totally figure out beforehand if she has a thing for you before you do this:

Either way, the best thing that you can do is reveal this in public, usually with her friends, and not have a nervous breakdown while trying to tell her your feelings. A beaming smile with confidence goes a long way. If she has the cannonballs of steel to reject you, even in front of her friends, then act like it never even happened--act like it never fazed you. And for Pete's sake, make sure she actually knows you! I would be totally creeped out if a random girl whom I never even seen before started going all love fu on me. XD

It's goooood to be back AG! Yeah I was sorta gone for *cough* a week. Sorry!

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If she has the cannonballs of steel to reject you

I wouldn't advise going out with a girl that has balls of steel.

Good luck, whatever you do. And remember that you should only do what feels comfortable in the right situation.
ArtemisDragon
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Thanks guys i think i will take moonfaries advice and slip a valentine into her locker.

hitmanvp95
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Dude, just be yourself. Just don't put much thought into it, act casual.

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Dude, just be yourself. Just don't put much thought into it, act casual.

agreed.

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Or you could throw a pink heart-shaped pineapple at her.

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Hey AG i know this is stooping low but im gonna ask a girl out this valentines day and i have no idea wat 2 do?


The two things that I've found to be immensely beneficial when dealing with the girl you like are honesty and confidence. Just tell her that you like her (but be more elaborate than "hey, I like you&quot and that you think you guys would have a great time hanging out.
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Make sure you at least somewhat know her first. And don't suggest anything way to intimate, a friend of mine has a guy ask her out by suggesting they cuddle. Needless to say, she said no in every possible way.

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take her out somewhere u can afford and give her chocalates, a rose or roses, and maybe a romantic place to go after the meal...thats what im trying to do for my gf...course having a stuck truck(who knows whats wrong with it) that kinda makes things sticky so to spaek

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Valentines day happened did ya get the girl?

ArtemisDragon
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Yes i did luckily.

DemonicEyed
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Did you have a good time with her?

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I would never just ask out a girl, and I never have. What I simply do is ask her if she wants to go to the movies or some place with me alone and then see where it goes. If I can hold a conversation, I am in. Basically, I just slowly make her like me. Then, when I know she is into me, and we have been on a few dates, I ask her to be my girlfriend.

If you already know her pretty well, make sure she knows you and is into you.

If you guys know each other very well, then just make sure she is into you. If she's not, then just keep going out until you are 100% sure she is not into you, or she is into you. Then make your move.

It has worked three times before so I would say it is pretty good. I know you already are dating, but that is what I would've done because you won't be lucky all the time.

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Well, since I'm a girl... here's some tips.

1. Be calm... don't freak out
2. Tell her that you like her, and ask calmly that you want to go out with her.
3. Don't be gross
4. Talk to her alot first, then ask her out.

OK? Try.. I promise

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