I want all of you to post your thoughts of bullying, and get all of your pains of being bullied out right here. It is time that these forums actually do something good. Getting all of it out actually helps, a lot. I myself am bullied, and i know that it is not fun. Get it out here, we're all ears, and at this time, it is important to be in good spirits. Who knows, this thread could change somebody's life. If you can post anything, i would be grateful for your time.
A lot of people like to annoy me. So here is how it goes, I get annoyed, I beat up, people step back from me for a while and the cycle continues. I don't think it counts as bullying tho, feels more like being messed with then anything.
reading all these stories make me realise how easy i got it. having a bigger body than most of the kids for the majority of my school life
Ghostgc your bigger body kept bullies away from you, but it was totaly different for me. I was a village boy stronger than most of them but i was kind of gentle giant.But beating me was considered a challenge. It was like "I have beaten [my name], so dont mess with me."
Strangely I've never seen a case of bullying in my school. That's not an exaggeration, I have not heard of anyone getting into trouble for physical bullying/cyber bullying and the lot. Perhaps because we're an all boys school and too focused on studying or hanging out. (Tsk, Asians).
I find one of the better ways to avoid being bullied apart from going to teachers is to just hang out with your friends in a group.
Strangely I've never seen a case of bullying in my school. That's not an exaggeration, I have not heard of anyone getting into trouble for physical bullying/cyber bullying and the lot. Perhaps because we're an all boys school and too focused on studying or hanging out. (Tsk, Asians).
I find one of the better ways to avoid being bullied apart from going to teachers is to just hang out with your friends in a group.
Strangely I've never seen a case of bullying in my school. That's not an exaggeration, I have not heard of anyone getting into trouble for physical bullying/cyber bullying and the lot. Perhaps because we're an all boys school and too focused on studying or hanging out. (Tsk, Asians).
I can say the same thing, except i go to a fully coed school. The only bullying i see going on in my school is at a few kids who are pretty much asking for the other kids to hurt them so that they'll feel like they are the center of attention, but even then it's not real bullying, they've never actually gotten more then a bit of verbal abuse and a punch.
I haven't gotten bullied much, but I think the reason is that I know/hang out with people from sports teams, mainly football and baseball, and I have friends in most of the main groups at my high school. I have witnessed bullying and the way it was handled was most of the time showing the bully that he's outnumbered. If you show support for the victim in groups, then usually the bully stops and tries to maintain some dignity by walking away like a bad ***. You have to feel genuine pity for them though, because no one just becomes a jerk. It's usually from another source like abuse, mental disorder, trauma, ect.
I used to be bullied for a bit in 2-3rd grade, I wasn't getting too annoyed at it except for when they started to get physical, then it got very annoying. I just told the teacher on them and they stopped. After that I have had bullies try to bully me, but what works best is to just hit them hard when they aren't expecting it at all so they get put back in place and everyone respects you. Stopping it early is always that best solution since once they go on for a while they grow more accustomed to being a bully and won't take you seriously when you try to stop them.
I also found that laughing at their jokes that were meant to hurt you or just go along with it and continue with their train of thought always helps and stops them before they think you are one to be bullied.
I've never been bullied, most likely never will be. Bigger, dumber people have always tried to bully me, but not responding or kicking their *** is the best way to get them to stop. They get no amusement with a bloody nose or a target with no response.
Don't appear small, passive, and insignificant if you don't want to be bullied. Even if you aren't self-confident, appearing like you are will prevent most bullies from picking on you. The ones who do are usually social outcasts anyways, and it wouldn't be hard to have some people help you out with the problem, be it teachers, administrators, or other students. Beware with the last route if you are a pacifist.
I was bullied to the point of considering suicide. No I am not looking for sympathy, I merely wish to share my story with anyone who wants to listen. They bullied me for a long time. I was labled, they called me emo, cutter, goth, athiest, satanist, fat, ugly, worthless, and nobody. When in reality they didn't know a thing about me. They told me I was worthless, I should just kill myself because no one wanted me around. For a long time I believed them. People don't really know you.
I was bullied to the point of considering suicide. No I am not looking for sympathy, I merely wish to share my story with anyone who wants to listen. They bullied me for a long time. I was labled, they called me emo, cutter, goth, athiest, satanist, fat, ugly, worthless, and nobody. When in reality they didn't know a thing about me. They told me I was worthless, I should just kill myself because no one wanted me around. For a long time I believed them. People don't really know you.
actually considering suicide on just being bullied is kind of EMO
actually considering suicide on just being bullied is kind of EMO
actually by saying this you were obviously never bullied in that level.
i never considered it for one reason. i was hoping for a new life. i can definitely understand why some people would consider it. i never thought about commiting suicide but i understand the feeling of just wanting to disapear and thats it. this wasnt caused by bullying but i understand the feeling. espacially when it comes from darks reason.
actually by saying this you were obviously never bullied in that level.
If day in and day out you were subjected to psychological torment by people you know and no one helps, after a while life will seem pretty bleak and desperate. Suicide is not being emo. Emo means to be emotional, and if such hurt happens, it's a natural tendency for people to feel so.
actually by saying this you were obviously never bullied in that level.
Definitely. I know what its like to be put as an outcast. I'm glad that it wasnt often, because it seriously hurts you. You don't even need to like the people that put you away, but if you're the outcast in a group of people then you will never want to be with that group of people. Which is very difficult as a child because you can't always choose what you want to do and where you want to do it. You become really sick of it, and theres not really anything you can do. It's a depressing situation.
actually by saying this you were obviously never bullied in that level.
i never considered it for one reason. i was hoping for a new life. i can definitely understand why some people would consider it. i never thought about commiting suicide but i understand the feeling of just wanting to disapear and thats it. this wasnt caused by bullying but i understand the feeling. espacially when it comes from darks reason.
Oh I had my share of bullying over the years. I know what you are trying to say, u r saying that some times one wants to disappear. I know that feeling too. But still it sounds ridiculous to wish dying over a petty matter like bullying.
But still it sounds ridiculous to wish dying over a petty matter like bullying.
It comes to a point where you'd rather do inane things then be bullied again. You'd rather stand in the cold for 2 hours then face the bullies. Just knowing that you'll need to face complete rejection for no good reason is gut wrenching. It takes some time to get over that. Though I can only speak from a child's perspective. Adults may be different.
