Let's start with the on topic stuff first, in order of appearance, I think:
Just as some rules are good, having too many rules is a very bad thing. When there is an overabundance of rules, their sphere of influence spills over from general good conduct into the insignificant areas of operation, where they then become a burdensome and ever-present governmental micro-managing of a person's life.
While being a horrible stickler for rules and order, I do have to agree. There is a point where the rule stop being there to keep order, and just start obstructing the work of, well, everything. I wouldn't say its like this on most forums or on the internet in general, rather, it tends to be a problem with moderators being a bit power abusive or someone being really bossy about how stuff is done on
his forum.
Rules are good, but only as long as they actually help anything.
or the "i read and accept the terms of agreement" button,
This is one of the stupid part of this current time's online society. Few bothers to read rules or Terms of Conduct/Agreement/and Conditions. This usually ends with them agreeing to things they would never agree to if asked, and in cases like forums, skipping past the important parts about how to properly behave on the site they are using (and the fact that they agree to follow the rules, not bad mouth moderators and not circumvent bans).
Seriously, some might think the bane of humanity will be robots. I think humanity might just end up clicking 'I agree' to something that will get them killed.
And for the spoonfeeding part, well, if we don't do that, they probably won't learn it, ever. If they can't learn more about the actual way to communicate online, and especially, on this site, well that's their problem.
I will have to disagree on this. If you point out where information can be found, they can go read up on it themselves and thus
learn. If you spoonfeed them informations, it will just be a brief "Oh, cool" and it will be gone in minutes.
A teacher doesn't go read up the solutions to questions either, they tell you to try and solve it yourself. Librarians don't sit down and read the books for you, even if they have found them for you. All that is what actually leads to learning, and perhaps next time they will remember that big thread'o'information and go look there instead of making another thread asking questions.
Yet I always get the feeling that on the internet something is always going to go terribly wrong.
Not necessarily, but having done a bit of research on the internet, social interaction and behaviour (yes, that is what I do), I have to say a huge part of users on the internet has no idea what they are doing. Which obviously causes disasters.
They don't bother reading rules or instructions, they can't be bothered to be critical of information, some can't even use a simple search engine (no, really). The internet is an entirely new domain to interact in, and few are actually aware of how to do so without knocking their head against the door frame and so on.
Also I have found that writing more thoughtfully helps me also is school because I am already used to throwing all my thoughts into one thing and including alot of deatail.
This.
Most use of the internet, especially of the social sort, will end up either giving you practice in real world skills, in technical skills or actually teach you new skills. This is also true for multiplayer games.
Well it seems that my longish post had no real effect on the posts after it, well at least it was worth a try.
My theory is that one is never enough, if the OP is short. See any post of mine in one of those threads.
Basically, for a thread to end up being a proper discussion, you have to do a wall'o'text OP to lure most of the people that wouldn't bother reading it and wouldn't understand the topic from the title alone away. But more on that later.
Wait, I read over these post again and I realized this was supposed to be about forum behavior, not about game comments or ratings, but mine does sort of tie in to this, and it's in my opinion too good of a post to not post it about these things.
Well, rating and comments is a part of the social interaction between users here, so obviously it is relevant. It's the same reason I started out with my pet peevee in the OP on the short-as-heck posts of doom. It gives people a bit to relate to.
Now, the internet can be a rather good source of skill learning as previous mentioned, mainly because the social structure mimics that of real life interaction but in text which makes a lot of people more secure in themselves, and perhaps more prone to doing stuff they wouldn't do normally.
On the internet you can construct your own identity, you don't have to tell everyone everything and it is easy to find information and help. A good community can do wonders.
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Onto other things, so you can skip this.
On an unrelated note (excuse the hypocrisy), I've noticed now that you're not a mod, people treat you differently.. :/
MrDayCee told me the same. I haven't noticed.
If only Cenere could see us now, he'd be so proud
I am very proud of you all. And look, a real discussion in the Tavern!!
I guess that is the magic Cenere has that I've heard about.
It's call "A wall of text and an irrelevant title". Every one can do it.
i think videos would be cool
Shame.
To the OP... Please read. Your statement is good, logical ever, but it look so unpresentable. Wall of text and bad punctuation/grammar. I think just following some of those rules people will start to respect and take you more seriously.
Please read,it'll help you OP.
I am saying this in the most loving way, but you are an idiot. Sorry. Not only are you off topic, you also missed the fact that I already have read your little thread and pointed out the flaws in it, and you are pointing out
my flaws in public, when you could just as easily have dodged the bullet of being off topic and thus spamming, by going to my profile and ask me why I wrote such a wall of text and tell me I have a crap grasp of English, a grasp that is still better than most of the native English speakers' around here, it seems.
I assume your point on bad punctuation is all my commas. The English comma makes no sense, and I refuse to go by the entire lack of rules regarding it.
I assume I did a bunch of "They [...]s" and stuff like that? I do that all the time. It's a bad habit that caused me worse grades than I probably should have had if I actually read through my stuff. I don't. I write what I want to communicate, and that it is. If it isn't impossible to read, I think I have succeeded.
As for the wall of text..."Walls of text, nobody likes reading walls of text, people want information in summed up sentences, short and to the point." - Your point. Have you seen what replies look like when the OP is short and to the point? Want a hint?
Short. Useless. Posts.My own theory, and the reason I will write those "wall of texts"(which has paragraphs, and thus aren't) is to weed out the people that are... is? going to read the title or the OP and then reply just as short and to the point. Which leads to crap-all discussion, no real content and will get the thread locked for spam.
So dearest you, please don't go about assuming you are the Buddha of writing posts. You were the one that wanted images in the middle of posts, which acts like a doorstop to regular readers.
Or, if you are going to give me some advice, do so in the privacy of profiles, and try to use enough energy on it to know if someone has already replied to that wonder-thread of you, and pointed out what they think is flawed about your theory.
Now, aren't you happy you did this in public?
Anyway...
Cen doesn't natively speak english, and considering most these grammar mistakes are extremely unnoticeable or relevant,
I have to admit I really don't have a good grasp of English grammar. But at least I admit it.
(And the "They are/He is" stuff is bothersome when you start out with a language that only have one form "De er/Han er"
Done with ma ranting, continue onwards!