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Ernie15
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I've noticed the increase in threads being made about problems with relationships and dating. Now, I have no problem with the subject matter. No, my problem is with the amount of threads people are creating about it.

Judging by all these threads being made about the same thing, it's safe to say it's inevitable for these questions to be asked; and since the answers to these relationship/dating questions are generally very similar, putting all the questions in one thread saves time and posting.

No, this is not a thread where you specifically ask me for advice; I don't know very much about this subject. I'm simply the guy who has created the thread so you can post your questions for anybody to answer.

So if you have a question about dating or relationships, or anything along those lines, ask it here, wait for someone to reply here, and don't make a new thread about it!

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ProfessorOak
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I have this problem where this guy is constantly busy when I ask him if he'll get together with me on the weekends.

Busy with stuff like homework? I would suggest you inviting him to study with you or something that he couldn't use that 'busy' excuse. People use that all the time, so I wouldn't believe it. Maybe if he said it once or twice, but every time you ask him? Nah... Good luck!
TerryLasVegas
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You could try casually asking him what hes doing when hes busy. if he doesnt want to tell you then its no use but its worth a shot just in case

thecattygrl
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I'll work on it guys... Thanks for the advice. Bear with me.

-thecattygrl

Ernie15
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If he truly isn't available during the weekend at all, you could always try asking him to do things on weekdays. Unless he or you has something else to do after school, it's a great time to spend time with people.

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i dont have a girl fried and i want to keep it that way for now......................................... d:

hear that ladies? i dont want a relationship
hhhhhmmmmmmmmm maybe a pirate ship........?

Ernie15
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i dont have a girl fried and i want to keep it that way for now


For some people that's a choice. I envy those people.

hear that ladies? i dont want a relationship


Although my conscience tells me you're saying you don't want a relationship, something in my mind is telling me that you're attempting reverse-psychology, possibly without even knowing it.
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how the heck did you figure that out? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm then again my mom is a behavour analyst (or how ever the heck you spell it ) soooooo i should have known............................................................ hmmmmmmmmmmmmm........... oh well unknowingly

ahhh just like a land mine........

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Advice on long distance relationships?

RainbowGoGangster3
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Advice on long distance relationships?

Make sure u trust him/ her enough to know that he/she wont cheat on u
jeol
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Advice on long distance relationships?

Webcam chat?

Like Rainbow said, if you trust your friend to not do anything crazy, it will go... Better.
indie55
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Advice on long distance relationships?

One of my friends has one and he travels to visit many times.
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My first was ireland-america and lasted a year and three months but visits weren't regular.
Now i'm ireland-england and visits are weekly, once a month (sounds like child custody LOL).
But i don't know.

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Advice on long distance relationships?


Webcam, get involved with your parntner's life, etc but depending on how serious it is it's helpful to remember you could always take a break, especially if you can't physically see each other for long periods of time.

Works for me...?
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iphone chat.

if you dont have an iphone, well, you dont have an iphone.

jeol
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if you dont have an iphone, well, you dont have an iphone.

And that's a good thing

It's like saying someone smells; well, what do they smell like? I learned that from Spongebob

Seeing a friend's smile can be comforting, possibly even more comforting than to talk to them. So, both is the reasonable choice. Do a webcam chat; Iphone chats are overrated
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