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Posted Nov 10, '13 at 9:36am

thecode11

thecode11

243 posts

From pft's fight thing.

I think if someone hits you hit them back 3 times harder cause they got serious and attacked you so they should feel the consequences.

 

Posted Nov 10, '13 at 8:38pm

metalplastic

metalplastic

191 posts

Umm..

"Is that like help the victim then stop the bully"

Is that what you meant?

No, I mean: help victim > stop bully. Something like that.

Most problems start at home, i am saying if we can teach people how to deal with problems like this we can avoid them being bullies.

Yes, I definitely agree.
 

Posted Nov 10, '13 at 9:17pm

Erabor

Erabor

205 posts

Most problems start at home, i am saying if we can teach people how to deal with problems like this we can avoid them being bullies.

We see on the news cases of students cracking and picking up a gun and pumping lead into everything they see.
What the public never hears is 1.) How is their family life?
2.) Where the heck did they get the gun?

The parents are usually the blame.
 

Posted Nov 11, '13 at 7:00pm

thecode11

thecode11

243 posts

yeah that is true.

 

Posted Nov 12, '13 at 12:08am

pangtongshu

pangtongshu

9,757 posts

I think if someone hits you hit them back 3 times harder cause they got serious and attacked you so they should feel the consequences.


That is some arbitrary and fallacious justice system you got there..

What the public never hears is 1.) How is their family life?
2.) Where the heck did they get the gun?


3) Why did no one try to help him?
 

Posted Nov 12, '13 at 5:40pm

thecode11

thecode11

243 posts

true true pangtongshu (after searching up dictionary.com for the word definitions) i guess i should mean at least hit them back but nonlethally perhaps a show of don't mess with me or something.

 

Posted Nov 12, '13 at 9:08pm

Kasic

Kasic

5,740 posts

i guess i should mean at least hit them back but nonlethally perhaps a show of don't mess with me or something.


No, you shouldn't hit back just because they hit you. Defend yourself, yes, but trying to make a general statement that you should swing too will only ensure a fight breaks out.
 

Posted Nov 12, '13 at 11:08pm

pft

pft

525 posts

I think if someone hits you hit them back 3 times harder cause they got serious and attacked you so they should feel the consequences.


To some extent it would teach them a lesson but violence should be a last resort. Instead think what can be causing the issue. See if we could find some way to help them. Maybe what they need is someone to listen to them? Not saying it will be that simple or even possible. Also there is a number of behavioural issue that exist aswell.
 

Posted Nov 13, '13 at 2:56am

metalplastic

metalplastic

191 posts

Maybe try to have a reasonable conversation first but you silently or discreetly document it then if things didn't go any better then go for violence. If certain authorities get in the picture you get your evidence proving that it wasn't you that started it, you even tried to solve things the peaceful way but that person is just really violent so you had to use violence against that person.

Something like that.

 
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