First of all, no posting religious comments about how stuff is wrong in this thread. Of course everyone is allowed to state their opinion, but Christians and other religious people who just post about premarital sex, same sex relationships and other deviations from the standardized common norm is wrong because their biblething says so, tends to ruin the healthy discussion. So please, if you have nothing else to say, don't bother saying it. I talked with Strop about getting this topic up and running, so... I don't think I'm not allowed to, though some of you youngsters may find it offensive. Please, if weird things about sex disturbs you, stop reading now. Kthnxbai.
Now, the actual topic of this thread is pretty wide. Heavy reading about what paraphilias are: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphilia But to sum up (info taken from Wikipedia's article): * Exhibitionism: the recurrent urge or behavior to expose one's genitals to an unsuspecting person. (Can also be the recurrent urge or behavior to perform sexual acts in a public place, or in view of unsuspecting persons.) * Fetishism: the use of inanimate objects to gain sexual excitement. Partialism refers to fetishes specifically involving nonsexual parts of the body (for example, feet). * Frotteurism: the recurrent urges of behavior of touching or rubbing against a nonconsenting person. * Pedophilia: a psychological disorder in which an adult experiences a sexual preference for prepubescent children, or has engaged in child sexual abuse. * Sexual Masochism: the recurrent urge or behavior of wanting to be humiliated, beaten, bound, or otherwise made to suffer for sexual pleasure. * Sexual Sadism: the recurrent urge or behavior involving acts in which the pain or humiliation of a person is sexually exciting. * Transvestic fetishism: arousal from "clothing associated with members of the opposite sex." * Voyeurism: the recurrent urge or behavior to observe an unsuspecting person who is naked, disrobing or engaging in sexual activities, or may not be sexual in nature at all.
For anyone that do not "suffer" from a paraphilia, most of that can probably sound - grotesque... But many people in this world have one or more paraphilias.
Actually, just to annoy you all with a wall of text and ****s, here's the List of paraphilias as found here. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_paraphilias I think many of them are extremely gross, but most people have at least one of the listed. Personally, I have seven.
Some paraphilias have have more than one term to describe them, and some terms overlap with others. * Abasiophilia: love of (or sexual attraction to) people who are lame or crippled and/or who use leg braces or other orthopaedic appliances * Agalmatophilia: sexual attraction to statues or mannequins or immobility * Algolagnia: sexual pleasure from pain * Acrotomophilia: sexual attraction to amputees * Andromimetophilia: sexual attraction towards female-to-male transsexuals * Apotemnophilia: sexual arousal associated with being, becoming, or being perceived as an amputee * Asphyxiophilia: sexual arousal from self-strangulation * Autagonistophilia: sexual arousal from being on stage or on camera * Autassassinophilia: sexual arousal from staging one's own murder * Autoerotic asphyxiation: sexual arousal from self-induced asphyxiation to the point of near unconsciousness * Autogynephilia: a male's sexual arousal in response to the image of himself as female * Autonepiophilia: sexual arousal from impersonating and being treated like an infant * Autopedophilia: sexual arousal from the thought or image of one's self as a child * Bestiality: sexual attraction to animals * Bestiosexuality: sexual attraction to animals * Biastophilia: sexual arousal from assault and rape * Chremastistophilia: sexual arousal from being robbed or being held * Chronophilia: sexual attraction to a partner of a widely differing chronological age * Coprophilia: sexual attraction to (or pleasure from) feces * Cratophilia: sexual attraction to strength * Diaperism: sexual interest in wearing diapers * Erotic asphyxia: sexual attraction from asphyxia (also called "breath control play" or "strangulation", including autoerotic asphyxiation * Erotophonophilia: lust murder * Exhibitionism: the recurrent urge to or enacting of exposing one's genitals to unsuspecting, nonconsenting persons; also, sexual arousal by engaging in sexual behavior in view of third parties. * Fetishism: sexual interest in nonliving objects * Formicophilia: sexual attraction to smaller animals, insects, etc. crawling on parts of the body * Frotteurism: sexual arousal from the recurrent urge or behavior of touching or rubbing against a non-consenting person * Gerontophilia: sexual arousal from significantly older partners * Gynandromorphophilia: sexual attraction to women with penises, men cross-dressed as women, or male-to-female transsexuals * Gynemimetophilia sexual attraction towards male-to-female transsexuals * Hebephilia: sexual attraction to pubescent children * Homeovestism: sexual arousal by wearing the clothing emblematic of one's own sex * Hybristophilia: sexual arousal to people who have committed crimes, in particular cruel or outrageous crimes * Infantophilia: sexual attraction to children five years old or younger * Infanitilism: sexual pleasure from dressing, acting, or being treated as a baby * Kleptophilia: (or kleptolagnia) sexual arousal from stealing * Klismaphilia: sexual pleasure from enemas * Lactaphilia: sexual arousal from human milk * Lust murder: sexual arousal from committing (or trying to commit) murder * Mammaphilia: (also mammagynophilia, mastofact) sexual arousal from the breasts of a woman * Masochism: the recurrent urge or behavior of wanting to be humiliated, beaten, bound, or otherwise made to suffer * Menophilia: sexual arousal from menses or menstruating women * Morphophilia: sexual preference for individuals with a particular body shape and size * Mucophilia: sexual arousal from human mucus * Mysophilia: sexual attraction to soiled, dirty, foul or decaying materials * Narratophilia: sexual arousal in the use of dirty or obscene words to a partner * Nasophilia: sexual arousal from touching the nose of a person * Necrophilia: sexual attraction to corpses * Nepiophilia: sexual attraction to infants * Olfactophilia: sexual stimulus with smells or odors * Osmolagnia: sexual arousal from odors * Osphresiolagnia: sexual arousal dependent on smells or odors * Ozolagnia: sexual arousal dependent on smells or odors * Ondinism: (also undinism) sexual attraction to urine * Partialism: exaggerated sexual interest in a non-genital very specific body part * Peodeiktophilia: sexual arousal from exposing one's penis * Pedophilia: (British spelling: paedophilia) sexual attraction to prepubescent children * Pedovestism: sexual arousal from imitating children in appearance * Pictophilia: sexual attraction to pictorial pornography or erotic art * Podophilia: sexual attraction to human feet * Renifleurism: sexual arousal in response to the smell of urine * Sadism: deriving pleasure, or in some cases sexual arousal from giving pain * Salirophila: sexual arousal by soiling (only the appearance of) the object of one's desired partner * Scatophilia: sexual arousal from feces * Scoptophilia: (or scopophilia) sexual preference for watching others masturbating or having sex * Raptophilia: sexual preference for committing rape * Somnophilia: sexual arousal from sleeping or unconscious people * Sthenolagnia: sexual arousal from the demonstration of strength or muscles * Stigmatophilia: sexual interest in piercings, tattoos * Symphorophilia: sexual arousal from disasters * Telephone scatologia: being sexually aroused by making obscene phone calls to strangers * Telephonicophilia: being sexually aroused by making obscene phone calls to strangers * Transvestic fetishism: arousal from "clothing associated with members of the opposite sex." * Transvestophilia: sexual preference for a cross-dressered partner * Trichophilia: sexual arousal from hair * Troilism: (also spelled triolism) sexual interest in watching one's regular sexual partner having sex with a third party, usually unbeknownst to the third party * Urophagia: sexual attraction to consuming urine * Urophilia: sexual attraction to urine, including urinating in public, urinating on others, and being urinated on by others; * Vampirism: sexual arousal from drawing, sucking, or drinking blood * Vomerophilia: sexual attraction to vomit * Vorarephilia: sexual attraction to eating others or the idea of being eaten by others; usually in one piece * Voyeurism: sexual arousal through secretly watching others in intimate situations, such as disrobing, being naked, or having sex * Zoophilia: sexual attraction to animals * Zooerastia: sexual attraction to animals * Zooerasty: sexual attraction to animals * Zoosadism: sexual gratification derived from causing pain and suffering to animals
Fetishes and partialisms * Anesthesia fetishism * Balloon fetishism * Blood fetishism (also haematophilia) * Breast fetishism * Breast expansion fetishism * Crush fetish * Diaper fetishism * Doll fetish * Fat fetishism (also lipophilia) * Foot fetishism * Garment fetishism * Hand fetishism * Hypnofetishism * Impregnation fetish * Lipstick fetishism (straight and trans varieties) * Medical fetishism * Navel fetishism * Nose fetishism (also nasophilia) * Panty fetishism * Pregnancy fetishism * Racial fetishism * Robot fetishism * Shoe fetishism * Silk/Satin fetishism * Smoking fetishism (Capnolagnia) * Spandex fetishism * Tickling fetishism (also acarophilia) * Total enclosure fetishism * Transformation fetish * Wet and messy fetishism: sexual arousal by having substances deliberately and generously applied to the naked skin, or to the clothes people are wearing
Japanese terms Though these fetishes originated in Japan, they have recently gained popularity in other countries, particularly the Americas. * Nyotaimori: sexual arousal by eating sashimi or sushi from the body of a (usually naked) woman * Omorashi: sexual arousal to one's or a partner's feeling of having a full bladder * Tamakeri: sexual arousal from having a male kicked in the groin by a woman * Wakamezake: sexual arousal by drinking alcohol from a woman's body.
Technical terms for non-paraphilic sexual interests * Androphilia: Sexual interest in men * Analloerotic: Lacking in sexual interests towards others (but not lacking in sexual drive) * Ephebophilia: Sexual attraction towards individuals in mid- to late adolescence, typically ages 15-19 * Gynephilia: Sexual interest in women * Teleiophilia: Sexual interest in adults (as opposed to pedophilia, etc.)
AND THERE ARE SO MANY MORE! I think it's Rule 35 that states, if it exists, someone has a fetish for it.
Also, sorry about the ****s. It's that word for having intercourse with someone without their consent, you all know it.
Let the comments roll in! As with the Homosexuality thread, there is no particular direction for this topic to take. Just share your thoughts or something. Please keep comments on-topic and lighthearted. Flaming will not be tolerated.
@nonconformist: Just gotta hope those people have a fat fetish too.
And actually getting turned on by food in general... I don't know about that one, but I could imagine someone having a - maybe not definable fetish, but strong attraction to cucumbers, bananas and such as - toys...
hahaha!!! Ya i know what u mean by the -toys-... But i think there is such thing as a food fetish. I think its called like one of the 7 deadly sins... ummm gorging or sumthing. And i've played this game called Jericho, and before each mission it tells you a story about the "first born" (to those who don't know what that is search it up) or sum other guy back in ancient time. And one told a story about how some guy died, then was imprisoned in hell and ended up with like 10 thousand years of having blood, food, and sexual orgies.... Im just not sure how you could have food orgies....
The sin you are referring to is called gluttony, but it does not have anything to do with sex (or at least I have never seen it interpreted that way before O_o)... Food orgies is just when you have access to tons of food and eat and eat and eat, btw. With other people. Usually not related to sex either, though it can obviously be made so... >_>
Much like.. Bacchus. A greek God for wine. When having parties you could dedicate it to him, and it would probably end up being an orgy. Both foodwise and sexwise.
Much like.. Bacchus. A greek God for wine. When having parties you could dedicate it to him, and it would probably end up being an orgy. Both foodwise and sexwise.
Oh, the Greeks... They had a rather alternative view on sexuality compared to the "modern day society", did they not?
Most of the aphrodisiac foods are myths, or so some would have you believe. Perhaps that's a placebo effect.
Placebo is fun...
At this point I sometimes don't get the point of creating a 'fetish' for some things. I don't think it helps communicate anything more clearly.
It probably doesn't... It just so as not to define ones urges by saying 'I get turned on by _____ and ____ what about you?', but actually it doesn't serve much point since even within the different fetishes there are lots of variables...
Yep, totally bumping this to get more variation in the topics on the first page. And because I'd forgotten I wanted to say those things...
Oh, the Greeks... They had a rather alternative view on sexuality compared to the "modern day society", did they not?
When it came to straight sex, yes. And pedofilia. Two males was not a ting being looked lightly at, as the one being dominated would loose his rank. I think it might not apply to masters using their slaves as toys, but I cannot recall it properly.
i think some of these people have some severe psychological problems. anybody who would actually enjoy bestiality, self mutilation, or Coprophilia is messed up in the head. have any of you see the two girls one cup video? made people across the states throw up. me included.
Is it not the... philias that are the mental illnesses? Why is Strop or Zoph not here.... Oh well.
*waves at Cenere*
i think some of these people have some severe psychological problems. anybody who would actually enjoy bestiality, self mutilation, or Coprophilia is messed up in the head. have any of you see the two girls one cup video? made people across the states throw up. me included.
I've managed to avoid that video, but heard about it plenty of times. I agree on a lot of them being rather disturbing for people who do not experience the same feelings from them, but that does not necessarily mean they have psychological problems... If it is not impairing them in their everyday life, it is not really a disease. Also, I have been a cutter and know that pain can be a relieve of sorts... I can adjust to the idea of someone being aroused by that. Even though it is extreme. Coprophilia, the fetish I find most disgusting... But I know that to some, it is the humiliation element that does it (same thing as can be in bondage, which is a relatively common fetish), or just the dangerous intimacy that lies in handling each others feces... See, even though I find it absolutely icky, I can still relate... Bestiality, that's just sex with another specie... Uhm, I guess it's hard for most people to relate to, but as you may have noticed I find it relatively easy to relate to most fetishes...
uh, isnt that normal? or do you mean "woman", like a middle aged woman or something...?
No, it is any woman. Somebody just thought it would be fun to name that attraction?
I know a kid who has that. He has a bush fetish. Everyone makes fun of him for it.
Poor guy. Unless it's his own fault for telling people about it~
AH-HA HA HA HA! I dont find that arousing, just hilarious.
A fetish defined by the Japans - they are sort of hilarious.
That would be normal for me, wouldnt it, being 15... well, not up to 19. more like 14-16..
Yep, totally normal if you are in or around that age group. So technically you have that one. :P
Strop is probably on his way to classes right now, and I should actually be asleep. But I always wanna get involved in these topics! D: It is "sadly" the kind of stuff I know most about.
I would say pedophilia is waaaay easier, because thats actually like... uh... natural.
Heh, pedophilia is actually one of the fetishes I find it extremely hard to relate to, at least when it involves human children. The bodies are not developed yet, no base for sex... (By saying human before, I mean that there are certain made up species (I draw critters, go away) where pedophilia can be brought to a level where it makes sense - but it still disturbs me a little..)
If you aren't attracted to tits but you at least say you are to woman, chances are you just haven't found out your gay. Nothing wrong with that, but EVERY straight man loves tits. And dont call me a homophobe for that, because most of the people who yell that stuff over small **** are people who don't even have gay friends, I have one, and as long as he doesn't r@pe anyone, its fine. But ****, I really just want to leave when he does... Just because I'm friends with a gay doesnt mean I have to stand for him r@ping people. I dont want to see that. I'm still straight...
Uhm... Yeah, please stop insinuating that gay people are more likely to r*pe someone. Kthnx? Actually, as a guy you don't need to be attracted to the boobage of female individuals to call yourself straight. There's always the butt, the general female frame, the stuff that female have between their legs... You are only gay if you find yourself attracted to the same sex, while not attracted to the opposite sex.
and she turned him down after 30 seconds for getting crazy with his tongue.
Oh fail. Anyway, not the place to talk about him behind his back~
