I made this thread, because I've seen a lack of emotions toward girls. I read a puberty thread on her, and it's quite obvious that some chaps on AG here, don't know how to keep a girlfriend, or how to break up with them.
Here's some tips that can help you out chaps:
1. Never make your girlfriend do anything she doesn't want to do. If you want a kiss, and she says "no", she doesn't mean maybe in a little bit. When she says "no" you'd better lay off. So never make the focus of having a girlfriend just to have someone to practice your moves on, girls are not to be used for that purpose. They are humans as well, and they have a say in what they want or will do.
2. Get to know what your girlfriend likes by asking her friends. Surprise her with her favorite candy or movie as a gift, and leave it in her locker. Girl's enjoy getting gifts, and she will like you that you take an interest in her.
Post some tips you have on this half of the subject, and make sure they are appropriate.
----------------------------------------------------------- Now for how to break up with a girl, but make it so she doesn't totally hate you.
1. Never call or text your soon to be ex, and say that you two are done, she will think that you are too important to tell her to her face. So instead, take her for a walk around a park or garden, and tell her to her face that you don't think that things are working out.
2. Never have a friend tell your soon to be ex that you two are through, do the end part of 1 instead.
If you have any tips on this subject, post them below.
I hope that this will help out some chaps here on AG
@Zophia, I myself thought my metaphor didn't quite make sense to me, but I thought it would to others. I suppose it didn't, and I failed quite considerably
On another note of mine...just this week I realised that even though I had gone out with other girls inbetween...I found myself liking a girl I liked about 2 years ago. I saw her for the first time in abou 5 weeks...and my stomach flipped.
I think what you were trying to say Fritz was that breaking up with someone is like being told you cannot breathe anymore. You feel like you need to have them to survive...but you have to try and live without them.
Maybe a better metaphor may be in order...because people don't always die from breaking up...
The thing with her is that...well...our current 'friendly' relationship is that we both hate each other...so that is sort of the front...she won't talk to me on MSN...at school she does more...
I have been talking to one of her friends a fair bit about it...because that girl is my friend too...so I think I might be able to get something to happen.
The situation is difficult...its not like I can walk up to her and say 'lets go get a milkshake...' its a bit different...
I'm 11... so I don't think I can offer anything to say really... oh wait!
Girls don't give up as quickly as guys, they just keep going until they've been reduced to nothing, an empty void in their heart. Don't ask me how I know that... I just do.
