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Fritz_Rublehem
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I made this thread, because I've seen a lack of emotions toward girls. I read a puberty thread on her, and it's quite obvious that some chaps on AG here, don't know how to keep a girlfriend, or how to break up with them.

Here's some tips that can help you out chaps:

1. Never make your girlfriend do anything she doesn't want to do. If you want a kiss, and she says "no", she doesn't mean maybe in a little bit. When she says "no" you'd better lay off. So never make the focus of having a girlfriend just to have someone to practice your moves on, girls are not to be used for that purpose. They are humans as well, and they have a say in what they want or will do.

2. Get to know what your girlfriend likes by asking her friends. Surprise her with her favorite candy or movie as a gift, and leave it in her locker. Girl's enjoy getting gifts, and she will like you that you take an interest in her.

Post some tips you have on this half of the subject, and make sure they are appropriate.

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Now for how to break up with a girl, but make it so she doesn't totally hate you.

1. Never call or text your soon to be ex, and say that you two are done, she will think that you are too important to tell her to her face. So instead, take her for a walk around a park or garden, and tell her to her face that you don't think that things are working out.

2. Never have a friend tell your soon to be ex that you two are through, do the end part of 1 instead.

If you have any tips on this subject, post them below.


I hope that this will help out some chaps here on AG

- Fritz_Rublehem

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Fritz_Rublehem
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Hmmm... Going out for milkshakes is what we chaps here in Dortmund do with our girlfriends.


@Pazx, that is quite interesting, I've never heard about that before.

supersmiley
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yeah...well here we invite them over...and then we have fun...in a good way

Fritz_Rublehem
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Hmmm... What kind of things do you guys do with your girlfriends?

Destor
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Lots of us go to the movies. Or, if you can afford it, go out to a nice place for a romantic dinner.

Uh, I can't think of anything else.

kingryan
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Well, seeing as I have only had the one girlfriend I haven't really been on a 'one on one' date with someone....I think what most people do here is movies or go to the beach.

I dont really know though...

supersmiley
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yeah well nobody really knows...just do whatever you feel like

kingryan
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Yeh...or do whatever she wants to do. That works too...make sure that she is happy...and don't do something she doesnt want to do.

ShintetsuWA
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Yeh...or do whatever she wants to do.


That can just get plain ugly right there. Doesn't have to be girls, it can be guys too, that want to do something, and they end up controlling the relationship. None of us want that, even though it makes one side of the party feel better.
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That can just get plain ugly right there. Doesn't have to be girls, it can be guys too, that want to do something, and they end up controlling the relationship. None of us want that, even though it makes one side of the party feel better.
Gets problematic the other way around too.
supersmiley
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yeah girls can be as controlling as guys...but you need to be in a true relationship where you respect each other not one bossing the other around

ShintetsuWA
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I put that there! XD

Think of it this way. In a relationship that consists of Independents (e.g. "I wanna do this, that, and all of this!&quot and Dependants (e.g. " what do you wanna do?), you can't have 2 of the same. It doesn't work, and things end up turning into arguments. That being said, you can't have 1 of each either, since the one independent will control. Gotta have a little of both, it seems :-/

I know people who have difficulty being independent too. It's a tough life for them.

supersmiley
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i am a little of both i mean you cant have your way every time you have to be considerate i mean you cant have only 1 person in a relationship theres 2 ppul...

Destor
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mean you cant have only 1 person in a relationship


Or what if you can...? Um, sorry.


Uh, the most important thing is to make sure the other person is happy, and that you aren't miserable. As long as you can stand the person that shouldn't be a problem though.
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the most important thing is to make sure the other person is happy, and that you aren't miserable.

Let me see... Fail, and fail. Might be because of that my relationship failed... Besides lack of trust...
Destor
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Wait, I don't understand. You had a relationship were you were miserable and the other person wasn't happy? Or I was wrong? I can't tell.

Oh, hey, I have success. I was in an art class with the person, and she were talking about how she painted badly. I told her she was a good painter, and she seemed very happy.

It's a good idea to compliment them when you see the chance. Not too much, or else they will get a bit annoyed.

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