Ask away in here. Before you all go accusing me of being some loser, just don't. I know I'm not the girl master, but I do know a lot about them, why they do certain things that they do, so on and so forth. So don't be shy =D
she may be happy just doing stuff for you, some times girls *likeme* just like to make there boyfriend happy, and if they are happy then we are happy aswell.... kinda like a win win thing in a girls mind
Well Mage, maybe we should go in another direction. Forget the romance, see what non-romantic things you could do to please her. Does she have a favorite band that is on tour? Does she have some sort of hobby that she likes that you can do together. It is quite possible that she doesn't want the to do the mushy romance thing.
ol magegreywolf your girlfriend sounds just like me.... she just dont wanna be girly and sappy, just tell her that you are into it and you really like it... thats what my boyfriend did, and now I am starting to be more girly ...lol
New idea... Ok here is an analogy (I know a lot of you on here are underaged, but you will understand my sotry): My boyfriend loves beer! I do not like beer (I love hard liquor). But it is his dream for me to go out and have a beer with him. So...I have been trying to enjoy the stuff. Over time I have acquired a slight taste for beer. It no longer repulses me to say the least and I can enjoy certain kinds of beer now. In due time I am quite sure I will like it.
So, my point is beer is an acquired taste and for your gf romance might have to be acquired as well. This appears to be true in Shylas case. I was kinda like that when first dating as well. Your gf might need some time until and more exposure until she realizes the sweetness of romance. Maybe with more attempts and due time, she could love it!
talking about beer, I have a question..... my boy friend said that he wants to try like wine or something like that when he is of age. is it okay to drink or is that something I should stay away from?? both my mom and dad drank to much, and im cherokee and I think cherokee are bad/mean drunks lol
Your gf might need some time until and more exposure until she realizes the sweetness of romance. Maybe with more attempts and due time, she could love it!
That might be true, other then her BF before me she said she had very little experience in dating. Most guys would only last about a week before they would go running for there lives.
Well Mage, as you've been together for 4 years now...I think you have gotten to know her better than those who would "run for their lives!" Just smother her with a little bit of romance and a lot of what she is comfortable with/whatever you've been doing for the past few years (you're obviously doing something right--give yourself some credit)!
thats cause its still related to the topic of this thread, he just doesnt realize it =/
hmmm... i got outa class last night and rigth when i finished changing she called. she was startign to cry and told me she just wanted to hear my voice =/
hmmm... i got outa class last night and rigth when i finished changing she called. she was startign to cry and told me she just wanted to hear my voice =/
