Ask away in here. Before you all go accusing me of being some loser, just don't. I know I'm not the girl master, but I do know a lot about them, why they do certain things that they do, so on and so forth. So don't be shy =D
@carlie well yeah i gotcha but for a 12 year old shes really mature and down to earth but im not gonna go out with her ima just see what happens between us as friends.
I know you really enjoy the company of the females from your prior history. I don't think jumping into a relationship with a 12 year old is a good thing. Now, I am sure she is wonderful and mature as you say. But legally that isn't a good idea to be that far apart in age until you are both over 18. Like Carlie said, there is a huge maturity difference between your age and hers. I strongly recommend holding off to date her. Just enjoy her friend ship right now, and if you seem to be falling for her...maybe you could wait for her until she is at least 16. That way she is closer to the age of consent and you can avoid legal issues. Who knows... you could truly fall in love with her, and you could could bounce to another girl in some time. Just don't jump into anything right away!
Irrelavant post to what we are currently discussing..
Anyways, I have a small situation..
I actually talked to the ex for awhile last night *gasp* and her and I are friends again. After we had our discussion she had to leave and she told me before she left that. "I hope you don't mind talking to me while ***** (name of bf) is around... bye "
So it sounds like everything is alright, but here's the catch. I don't like being around that guy, I like talking to her and we are best friends. Ad I know i shouldnt let something like this ruin our friendship, but I just have the hardest time being around him.
Btw, Age differences between me and him is 3 years, me being older.
You cannot change the your ex's choice of bf no matter how badly you want her to see that he isn't a good guy. Even though things are good, your relationship with her is slightly fragile as you just had a big fight. I am not sure if everyone here will agree with me, but I suggest to stop trying to get her to see that he is a scumbag (at least for now). Just be happy that the person you care about, the ex, is on good terms with you.
@ Trayz. I've moved on from trying to get her to realize that, I've come to the realization that I can't change her mind and that she will just have to find out on her own. But How can I still hang out with her when I can't stand being aroind him
@ Bjiscuit, well it is a hard place 2 b in.... I know how you feel, there were people that my friends dated I didnt wanna b wit.... but if you really want to be friends wit her, and you still care about her, and you dont wanna lose her *as a friend* then you might just have to deal with it.. its a hard thing to do, the age diff. is really hard, but hey you might be able to talk to him and you know help him with changing what ever it is you dont like bout him, he is young so he has time to change....
I'm just wondering, how can you tell if a girl likes you? Please no smart-a$$ answers. Also, if this has been asked previously, I was too lazy to read all freakin' 74 pages.
well, he's cheate don every girl he's dated. He's asked other girls for nude pics while he's being going out with her. He's all touchy feely 24/7 and hes a jackase.
Sadly, there is no easy answer to find out! If there was...starting relationships would be so much simpler! But here are some suggestions:
You can always ask around (hopefully without detection) to her friends/your friends to see who she is interested in or if she might want to date you.
You can try and read how she acts around you. Some girls (and guys) act in a different way when they are around their crush.
But, if you seriously are interested in seeing if she likes you/wants to date you. You should suck up your pride and straight up ask her yourself (no texts/online messages...I mean face to face). This can be so nerve racking and worrisome for a lot of people, but it will get you the honest answer. You might not hear the answer you want...but hey, nothing ventured nothing gained. Good luck!
You can try and read how she acts around you. Some girls (and guys) act in a different way when they are around their crush.
Yes, this is the same for both guys and girls. Sometimes it's hilarious. While reading a person, try not to imagine that the person is acting like they like you. Make sure it's sincere. Our minds play some evil tricks sometimes.
Okay, so there's this girl I like, but I don't really talk to her, or girls for that matter, very often. I asked my brother for some tips on talking to her. Compliment, things she'd like to talk about, that sorta stuff. He told me to say "I'd plow you all night long." Now after his faulty advice last time I asked him what it meant. He said it had something to do with old farmers and fields or something. I don't really remember. So anyways, I said this to her and she flipped out and said she never wanted to see me again. WHAT DID I SAY? Help please.
