Ask away in here. Before you all go accusing me of being some loser, just don't. I know I'm not the girl master, but I do know a lot about them, why they do certain things that they do, so on and so forth. So don't be shy =D
You're just mad at her for leading you on. It'd piss me off too. But I don't see how going up to her and telling her that would solve anything. Sure, it might get you an apology, but if you really aren't mad at her for dating him, it shouldn't matter. I'm kinda confused about what you'd want out of this. Do you want her to date you, or just an apology, or what?
i want to date her. i love her. i just dont know what to do now, move on? not talk to her? keep trying?
hm. well it depends. start asserting in the actions that you do with her so that you give her the idea that your starting to like her in a more then friends way.
kinda get were im going? like massages are never a bad thing. puting your arm around her, ask her to movies/dates or what not. but dont like openly put it out there, cause that could ruin your friendship, kinda sneak stuff in.
god...... im just ****ing tired of the female sex right now. you give them your heart and they throw it in the dirt.
like massages are never a bad thing. puting your arm around her
I stress to not do these things if you're not in a relationship with the person, unless he/she asks for it. Close physical contact can really be awkward to the girl and can damage your chances of a good relationship. Friendly hugs and high-fives do a better job. This can be done in a friendly, satirical matter and it will still have the effect.
If you want signs to know that she likes you, then the most basic thing to know if she enjoys and wants to interact with you. Does she "just happen" to come across you in the lunch line or at the table? Do she reply do your texts, or does she text you first? Does she smile and laugh when you talk, or is she the same way with your regular friends? Does she look you in the eyes when you talk to her? Bonus points if she tries, but looks away, while still being interested in talking to you. Does she stagger or stutter when talking? Does she willingly follow you to class or to the bus? Does she seem interested and enjoy the things you talk about? More importantly, are there frequent times in which she is in a caring, friendly, or wanting mood whenever she interacts with you? These things may help with your answer. The majority of these being correct may be the indication that she likes you. But you never know until you try.
If she doesn't like you, well, those are the opposite ends of what I asked above.
I stress to not do these things if you're not in a relationship with the person, unless he/she asks for it. Close physical contact can really be awkward to the girl and can damage your chances of a good relationship. Friendly hugs and high-fives do a better job. This can be done in a friendly, satirical matter and it will still have the effect.
ah but things like this can lead to the friend zone. i mean, if your not a creeper or a duechbag you should be able to take a hint when a girl DOESNT want you
Massages and putting my arm around the girl is what I did with my girlfriend last year and not until we were comfortable being close. Doing these two things with a girl that is not currently in a relationship with you, albeit one you don't plan to just be friends with, can set off some bad vibes with her. You would have to know her for quite some time to even suggest doing close physical contact like this.
i guess it depends. like if you just be like, "you know what you should do?" shell be like "what" then you gotta be like "my back freaking hurts u just give me a massage real fast" then be like "ill return the favor" or whatever
Why don't you guys just focus on being friends? If she's interested she'll let you know. Talk like this just annoys us. If you aren't willing to be friends and remain friends, then chances are you're not dating material
Bssides. Dating in high school is VERY overrated. I managed to survive being single till I was 20 and I'm still in the relationship at 22 that I entered into then
Agreed, high school and, gods forbid, middle school relationships don't last a semester anyway. They do, however, give you good practice for the real, serious relationships when you grow up. My past relationships give me good experience for when I decide to pop the question to one of my friends in college. We are focusing on the same major and job, so we get most of our classes together. So, my past experiences on relationships and getting into a relationship only help me with future ones.
