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Crunk88
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I do not feel very comfortable around homosexual people, I feel like there out to get my bum haha. I really dont understand why i feel like this, whenever i spot a homo i stay as far away as i can. I feel homophobia is just a natural reaction to something you dont like, for example snakes or spiders its just a phobia. I think that this phobia will never go away in alot of people, just because its natural. Although many people over come their phobias. What do ou all think of homophobia or phobias at all?

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TotalReview
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Shepherd

I seen homosexuals in real life. And yes there is straights that have a funny way of speaking, but I think if I asked anyone I suspected of being a homosexual because of their voice, I'd be right.


Have you ever heard of the terms metrosexual and bisexual? First, a metrosexual is not homosexual but may express a more feminine side such as a squeaky voice. A bisexual likes both but the metrosexual proves you wrong.

???
I'm sorry but I don't think that analogy relates.


Obviously you didn't get the message in it. I tried to make it simple but here it is. You say you are heterosexual. However, you have never done anything homosexual so how can you know for sure that you wouldn't like being homosexual more?

Its what I believe, and I can be wrong.


Judging people based on opinion is pretty wrong.
Vitamins
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Bisexuals, I always feel like they're the same as heterosexuals. I feel that way because ALOT and I mean ALOT of people are bisexual (well, more than homosexuals and just a little bit less than heterosexuals). So it's not a everyday situation that you'll see a bisexual but it will be often, trust me. If you're fed up with bisexuals then you're gonna have to fix it because there's alot out there.

P.S. I'm not a bisexual

Drace
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Ahh Bisexuals. They actually go with the point I made.

And Weeman, homosexuals can have sex with women too.

Why not? They may not feel the emotional attraction, but they can.
And I do not think your hormones can affect your emotions, but only sexual attractions.

Judging people based on opinion is pretty wrong.


Opinions have reasons behind them. For any opinion you give me, I can ask why.

Judging people based on opinion is pretty wrong.

A bisexual likes both but the metrosexual proves you wrong.


A metrosexual can be that way from life experience. Now I gave a good example of how someone can become gay. Do I need to give another example for meterosexuals...?
WeeMan147
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Obviously you didn't get the message in it. I tried to make it simple but here it is. You say you are heterosexual. However, you have never done anything homosexual so how can you know for sure that you wouldn't like being homosexual more?


I think everyone should have a homosexual experience at least once in their life. That covers both men and women, maybe if you try it you will see that it isn't that bad and it will really open your mind. Especially all the homophobes, go find a guy that you find cute and talk to them. It can even be two straight guys that never mention it again. Open your mind, people. Experience life!
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Now I gave a good example of how someone can become gay.


Where was that? I haven't actually seen any example of how a person can become gay.
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Shepherd

And Weeman, homosexuals can have sex with women too.


When did he say they couldn't? Why can't you ever have sex with a man? Weeman made an excellent point that everyone should experience a homosexual event in their life. It doesn't mean you have to go have sex with a guy but maybe just stare at some guy naked and see how your emotions go. I really don't think you should talk about someone until you have walked a mile in their shoes.

A metrosexual can be that way from life experience.


Prove it. You love to ask people for their evidence when you don't show any.
WeeMan147
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Nomad

Prove it. You love to ask people for their evidence when you don't show any.


Getting Drace to prove a point is like pulling teeth from an infant: impossible. Metrosexuals should not even be in this discussion, it has nothing to do with anything. Let's try and stay near the core of the topic. For all you homophobes out there, are bisexuals nasty to you? I have a friend that is married to a guy because she feels the emotional attachment to him, but she prefers to have sex with a woman. I realize homophobia is an irrational fear that comes from ignorance, but someone has to face it some time.
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And Weeman, homosexuals can have sex with women too.


Yes that's called being a lesbian. Ask a straight guy if he wants to have sex with a another dude and he would probably punch you in the face. Ask a lesbian the same thing and you'd get a ew. A gay man would say the same thing about being with a chick. Straight people don't seem to realize that the oogies you get when thinking about gay people being together, we get same thing about straight being together.
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Not they want it, but they can kris.
I bet you'd get a boner if a guy touched you*somewhere* but you didn't know he was a male.

Thats emotional feelings thats not allowing them to say "eww", not sexual.

Ehh lol I don't provide any points?
Lol forget it then, why am I wasting my time.

WeeMan147
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Nomad

Yes that's called being a lesbian. Ask a straight guy if he wants to have sex with a another dude and he would probably punch you in the face. Ask a lesbian the same thing and you'd get a ew. A gay man would say the same thing about being with a chick. Straight people don't seem to realize that the oogies you get when thinking about gay people being together, we get same thing about straight being together.


From my personal experiences and from the gay friends I had, I have seen that to not be true. I used to be friends with a gay guy that had sex with lots of girls, only because they both found it pleasurable. No emotion, just in and out. I think it's a person to person kind of a deal. So while some gay people are grossed out by the opposite sex, some don't mind it if they can get pleasure from them.
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Ehh lol I don't provide any points?
Lol forget it then, why am I wasting my time.


You just tell us examples that you believe are correct. They could be or not be right but they are not good enough for evidence. Drace, don't take it the wrong way. We just think you shouldn't judge so many people based on examples and opinions.
WeeMan147
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Yeah, Drace. Don't give up. We just want you to use facts, not examples.

kris1027
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Not they want it, but they can kris.
I bet you'd get a boner if a guy touched you*somewhere* but you didn't know he was a male.


That would be pretty hard for me to do, being female. And if some random person touched me *someone* I'd probably start screaming for the cops.

Thats emotional feelings thats not allowing them to say "eww", not sexual.


Being gay is the whole thing. Sex and emotion. A naked man makes me want to puke for instance and I don't like the way they feel or the way they act. And to weeman yes I see what you're saying. I would have edited my post to say, at least that's how I am, but armorgames doesn't let us edit our posts for some reason. >_<
Some people just like to get some and don't much care what sex the other person is/
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Shepherd

And if some random person touched me *someone* I'd probably start screaming for the cops.


That made me laugh so hard.
kris1027
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Not they want it, but they can kris.


And yes, you don't want to make it with a guy but you probably could. Anybody could have sex with anyone else but if it makes you unhappy to do so then why would you?

Sorry about the double posting. I just keep finding stuff to say after I push post lol
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