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shadow542354
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Ok I am 15, in 9th grade, super super shy. I have been homeschooled my whole life, and this year I am at a school that has a lot more homework and everything than other schools. So my question is; should I drop out of school if- every time they mention a test, quiz, and/or a paper, and every time they do something in class where I have to go and talk- I get super stressed out, nervous, I start twitching and shaking? I also do it when I just think about homework. I wasn't like this at all before school. I am also depressed, stressed out, and nervous every/all day. It also gets worse almost every time I go to school. I'll probably start to get siezures and/or pass out if it gets worse. I think I just can't handle school with my shyness.

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deserteagle
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another reason: girls don't date losers.

with out a HS diploma, your pretty much a loser.

girls respect guys who put in some effort. Quitters never get girls.

Put in some effort and graduate. when your 18, that's when you can get a job, go to college.. etc.

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I may have to drop out of school for a year.

Running away from home the day after my 17th birthday to a state in which it's perfectly legal to be living on your own at 17, and I have no idea whether or not they'll accept me at the high school, if I'll be too late to come into the school, if I'll be able to transfer my HS transcripts, etc.

but anyhoo, I think this topic was resolved on the first page.
Keep going to school, take initiative in being less shy, assert yourself when speaking to others, take classes or get a psychiatrist if necessary.

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no don't drop out

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I recommend to make your own decision. Some peaple here may be saying things that won't help you in a future. So, my reccomendation is to not follow what they say in here, and ask someone who really wishes to make some good, like a parent, or someone that cares for you and knows you. I'm not saying EVERYONE is trying to harm you, I'm just warning you some MAY try to harm you.

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dont drop out or you will be working in a McDonalds/BK/Taco Bell/Wendy's/any other fast food joint but even that, you'll be too shy (apperently) to talk to the customers and get fired from that job lickity-split.


stay in school

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you will be working in a McDonalds/BK/Taco Bell/Wendy's/any other fast food joint


You make it sound like that's the only job possible to get if you drop out.
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another reason: girls don't date losers.


Lol'd, my stomach hurts! Well, it's true in MOST situations. But life have its own way to survive. And not every girl have HIGH REQUIREMENTS lulz. But I agree with u.

I'm 25 now (my profile is a lie, I'm an Indonesian, now in China), When I was 18, just finished my high school and a year after that, I start my own small business. I start sell used mobile phone and mobile phone accessories and prepaid mobile phone bills. In Indonesia, even the fake mobile phone accessories have grades.

Charger and batteries(not original) (medium income):
Grade C: buy $0,5 I can sell it for $1 or $1,5.
Grade B: buy $2 and sell it for $4
Grade A: buy $5 and sell it for $8, I used this grade A battery, and sell my own Sony Ericson Original battery for $20. This grade A battery is good, I've been using this for more than 6 years.

Mobile phone prepaid cards (lowest income), profit = p:
10k credit: I can get $0,2 p
25k credit: $0,2 p
50k credit: $0,3
100k credit: $0,5
There are 2 kinds of prepaid card, one is a card, the other one is electronic-prepaid card, u charge the credit from your mobile.

Used phone, High Income:
Sony Ericson: I can get $5-30 p each.
Nokia: It's very famous in Indonesia, I can get $10-35 p each
And other mobile phone brand.

I was being trick by some seller, they sold me a broken mobile, I got tricked 3 times and lost some money. But life is unpredictable, and we, human, learn from mistake and become smarter and better, day after day. I also learn how to survive in this business from my friends that already open a store for 10+ years. They also have similiar experiences. Life is always up and down, like a wave in the sea.

I have selling these things for 4 years in my free time in the night. In the morning until afteroon, I study Information System(my major in a university), and open my small store from afternoon untill 11 o'clock in the night. I get profit $200-500/month. Just FYI, the salary of Bachelor degree was just $150-200/month in Indonsia. And with $150 you can have a decent++ life for a single person, not enough for a family with 2 kids.

Then, I used that money to buy a ticket to Nanning, China. I paid the tuition fee for 2 years, I study Chinese here. Next year I will take my Master and teaching Indonesian language at the same time, I will be very tired. So, there is a big possiblity I won't have time to visit AG. Master degree in China is very cheap, only $600/year, it's around $2500/year in Indonesia.

Life is awesome here, I have friends from US, Ireland, Vietnam, Swiss, Thai, Indonesian, Laos. I learn their language too, just how to speak, not written. Chinese have 5 tones, but Vietnamese have 9 tones.

dont drop out or you will be working in a McDonalds/BK/Taco Bell/Wendy's/any other fast food joint but even that, you'll be too shy (apperently) to talk to the customers and get fired from that job lickity-split.

stay in school


I think if he DO = Drop Out school now, he can't find any job, he just 15 years old, right? too small, underage.

OK, regards.

See you guys in Bali Island, I think one of you in AG have been going to Bali. Don't go to Jakarta if you go to Indonsia. I recommend Bali Island and Jogyakarta.
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.... wow u really need to calm down just dont do ur homework if they complain o well... i never do it wat do i get .. nothing EVA im in year 9 so its not coz im younger or sumthing

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