I'm sure you people here other people cuss everyday, and i'm sure you've probably done some as well. One day when I was playing basketball with other teens they prey much said all kinds of words: "Come on man shoot that **** shoot that ****!" "He ain't gonna **** that ****!" "yeah baby! That's what i'm ***** talking about" "You ****!"
Every single sentence has vulgar. Doe's no one have common sense? Cussing is not a way of life. I'm sick of hearing stuff like that! The world is not a vulgar land.
What do you people think? Should the world be full of swearing? Or should we just have some common sense and stop with the cussing? Really people, I'm sick of vulgar.
We need to listen to our parents when they tell us to never use vulgar. But some people would rather go behind their backs and start cussing to look cool. Some of you will say, " well my Dad does the same thing." Let me tell you something. Do as your parents say, not as they do. Your parents only want you to be better than they are.
your parents sometimes distort their views with a personal bias, like religion. this makes them extremely conservative and uptight, and never giving the child a chance to learn WHY those words are bad on his own. I know why they are bad, but they are only bad if used in inappropriate times.
And I'm with you, deathbewithyou. I believe that foul words are the lazy-brained folks' cheap attempt at trying to sound forceful. Though sometimes when I hear people talk, if I were to bleep out the curse words, it'd sound like someone trying to send a message in Morse code.
lol, I used to be just like that. I used to say "oor vocabulary is a sign of poor intellect" I can obviously tell you that I'm no moron, and that I still curse. granted the vast majority of teenagers curse because they think it's fun to say it in front of their friends, or to get people to bend to their will, but most of the people who curse only say it when circumstances either allow it, or call for it. do you really think that everyone who curses once is a total moron who wants to force their will? thats hardly the case. all of the people except you and death tell you that it is okay when circumstances allow it, and even then only just once. nobody goes around trying to throw the loudest F-bomb, but we tend to say it louder when people tell us what we can or can't do. for humans are a prideful species, and we tend to react negatively whenever someone tries to assert their will over us like you two are doing right now.
it should not be too much demand that the people know what a vulgar word means instead of using it. like saying to a normal person that he is a reta**.
your parents sometimes distort their views with a personal bias, like religion. this makes them extremely conservative and uptight, and never giving the child a chance to learn WHY those words are bad on his own. I know why they are bad, but they are only bad if used in inappropriate times.
Chipping in a more modulated view....different parents teach and raise differently; to generalize is to lump everything senselessly together into one umbrella ''rule'' that narrow minded people take up.
Since we're on anecdotal evidence, my case happens to be a complete opposite. My parents don't actively condone or condemn swearing, in fact they swear in front of me, and when I swear they swear too, because they feel my pain and anger. They expect me to be mindful enough to use such words only in the appropriate situation; using vulgarities in front of my elder more conservative relatives would be suicidal. Yet they don't me swearing most of the time.
What does this mean? Only that individual anecdotal evidence is little motivation to convince others to quit their ways of speaking, because we all have different perspectives and place our moral emphasis on different angles.
Just as you are entitled to not use vulgarities, so do I in using them however I deem fit. You can feel as much anger, shock, which I regard as just mock and pretentious, as though doing so will give you the moral high ground. What you have no right to do, is to tell me that I cannot swear.
How is giving a kid a spanking bad? Didn't your Dad give you a spnking when you did something wrong? Well I suppose not since you said it's bad.
Because hitting your child for such minor reasons is defined by some to be child abuse. I was beaten with all manner of objects as a kid, but I didn't mind it, or didn't think much of it because well, I'm Asian, from an Asian country. And heck, that's the norm, we hit our kids.
But in the West generally, it is viewed as child abuse. Which leads to what they claim mental scarring, hatred of parents, social withdrawal, yada yada, you know the drill. And in some senses, that can be true, which is hence why it's viewed to be wrong.
But in the West generally, it is viewed as child abuse. Which leads to what they claim mental scarring, hatred of parents, social withdrawal, yada yada, you know the drill. And in some senses, that can be true, which is hence why it's viewed to be wrong.
Spanking is not considered child abuse. If it was almost every parent I know would be in jail.
Why is it somehow worse than spanking a child? Because it hurts the parents more. You ever heard the words, "This hurts me more than it hurt you."?
So now the child's physical pain and scarring is somehow tolerated for the slight mental distress his shocked, grieved, thoroughly stunned parents receive?
