Hello i have just gone through a breakup. and i made a poem that made her forgive me and it gave me a second chance with her. if you want to apologize send this poem i made to her. My heart and sole were as cold as stone, when i saw her, i felt a warmth and courage inside. I got to know her and felt sure, i felt sure that we were meant to be. A month of being with her, i was deeply in love. my heart and sole were like burning coals. but then everything started becoming cold. My thought of the one for me started turning into a dream. then that dream was to good to be true it was a nightmare. I started to freeze. Hanging on to my last breath of warm air. She knocked the wind out of me, my words were harsh, my actions were cruel. now i wish everything were like the stone but because of what ive done im colder then the ice down low. im sorry for everything -zachary showalter- dont put the name thats just my signature
I'm really not sure. I think I was initially joking, but then I realized that she was telling the truth. The next week I told her how I felt like a major asshole for saying that, like I was about to cry, so we're cool now. I actually still feel pretty bad for saying it.
Ahh, I thought this was going to be a 'This one time at band camp...' story when I first started reading.
I would seem she wasn't the girl for you and that she likely didn't have the same feelings for you. Sending a poem like that could likely just creep her out a bit rather then make her feel all mushy.
Girls likle romance but not anything too chesey. Just tell her how you feel and be honest but dont say sorry if you dont mean we also like honesty (or at least i do).
Girls likle romance but not anything too chesey. Just tell her how you feel and be honest but dont say sorry if you dont mean we also like honesty (or at least i do).
Honesty is a double edged sword.. tell a girl what you think you did wrong and that your sorry if you really mean it, but don't tell her what she did wrong, this will only upset her even if you're right.
Trust me that doesnt work the way you would think. i tried that and it did not work at all. and if everything does not work just wait a week or two and try again. but saying im sorry does not work, girls are evil but at the same time you need them, if the girl makes you happy then stay with her, even though either way your going to have to go through hell
Lawl at you thinking you know so much about girls.
Seriously, man up, and talk to her face to face. Don't write her a cheesy love poem. The best way to solve a problem is by communicating directly, without circumventing the problem by writing a sappy apologetic poem. Girls generally don't like sappy poems, it comes across as being feminine, and not very genuine.
What you want to do is tell her why you were wrong in doing what you did and how you are going to fix it, because all problems need fixing. Then finally, just right out say that you are sorry. Then, make it up to her by taking her out to dinner or a movie. There isn't much you can do past that, and if she expects you to do tons of stuff for her because of that one mistake that you made, then she is taking advantage of you and is probably not worth it.
Remember, anyone worth loving is going to forgive you because they love your for who are you are. It sounds cliche, but it is true.
idk about these boys but we ladies respond to genuine love and apologetic behavior, she wants to be sweethearts with her baby, if you can change things will work out for the better. and if not, well the difference is time and a darling girl for you
I hope I count as a girl. Anyways, you need to think of how she must feel and be sensitive towards her. Dont be annoying on your apology either. Just express your true feelings for her and tell her how terrible you must feel. Even make her feel guilty if you have the chance. > You can even bring comedy into your apology or bring up something that she enjoys, you can even bribe her with flowers and chocalates. Cheesy can be heartwarming, just dont get TOO cheesy.
Women typically want you to admit that you were wrong, admit that you hurt their feelings, then apologize and ask how you can make it up. The key to apologies is to initiate the apology not with 'I'm sorry', but with "I was wrong because". Far more effective when you take ownership of your offense, whether real or only perceived. In some instances it is also effective to tie your reasoning into your apology, but it's a bit tricky as this can easily be seen as an excuse if you don't elucidate properly.
