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zachshw2
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Hello i have just gone through a breakup. and i made a poem that made her forgive me and it gave me a second chance with her. if you want to apologize send this poem i made to her.
My heart and sole were as cold as stone,
when i saw her, i felt a warmth and courage inside.
I got to know her and felt sure,
i felt sure that we were meant to be.
A month of being with her, i was deeply in love.
my heart and sole were like burning coals.
but then everything started becoming cold.
My thought of the one for me started turning into a dream.
then that dream was to good to be true it was a nightmare.
I started to freeze.
Hanging on to my last breath of warm air.
She knocked the wind out of me,
my words were harsh, my actions were cruel.
now i wish everything were like the stone
but because of what ive done im colder then the ice down low.
im sorry for everything -zachary showalter- dont put the name thats just my signature

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zachshw2
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or the best idea, if she breaks up with you, dont even make any contact with the girl and then they will want you back, p.s. they are all psychotic and thrive off of pain you feel

shayneii
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or the best idea, if she breaks up with you, dont even make any contact with the girl and then they will want you back,


No.

p.s. they are all psychotic and thrive off of pain you feel


...no.

I'm sorry, but you are giving horrible advice. :P
JiggleSquiggle
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You know relationships arent important untill you are in high school in your senior year. Because that is the year that you are going to graduate and you will not have a chance afterward unless yoy use some dating website.
So unless you are graduate just move on. And if you are a graduate, well just go to eHarmony.

Kellinger
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ok heres what you do
go to a high up bridge
call her telling her your going to jump because you love her to much to walk away
when she gets there and tries to talk you down say you cant live without her
jump
you wake up in her arms


uhhh what happens if she tells you to go ahead and jump?
Tassel
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Guys, just so you know. just saying sorry, never does Anything. Trust me.

Kellinger
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heh i know that by experince and i'm only 13. but strangly enough several days later all was fine.

Efan
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but strangly enough several days later all was fine.

Because thirteen year olds rarely use/have the temerity to hold a grudge.
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Because thirteen year olds rarely use/have the temerity to hold a grudge.

Hey now Efan, let the thirteen year old believe he can do it. Just kidding Kellinger. Sorry does work. If they don't buy it then are they worth it in the end? The most effective age old addage of "If you cannot handle me at my worst, then you do not deserve me at my best." Is tired and true like R.Lee Ermy screaming in the face of everyone who moves. No matter how many times you see it, it always is effective. If she wouldn't take you back after apologizing, it wouldn't have been worth it anyway. Unless you did something major. Like stalk her mom.
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As a womsn who's been apologised a time or two..(or three or four), its less about the apology as it is about the behavior of the gent afterward.
More than likely, if you've upset your girl enough to warrent an apology, just saying you're sorry will have very little immediate result. She will more than likely STILL be upset with you for days/weeks later, depending on how badly you messed up.
If your behavior improves after the apology, ex. she's upset that you NEVER call her and you call her more often for weeks, more than likely she will not only accept your apology, but she will treat you muuuch better.

It's not making a mistake that makes a bad boyfriend/girlfriend, its a lack of learning from mistakes.

Kellinger
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Believe me. there are some girls at my school that will hold a grudge against a guy for the months if they do something wrong. i was just lucky enough to get one of the best girls ever being mad at me over a little thing. (she got mad at me becuase i go hunting and shes a strong animal lover)

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