Hello i have just gone through a breakup. and i made a poem that made her forgive me and it gave me a second chance with her. if you want to apologize send this poem i made to her. My heart and sole were as cold as stone, when i saw her, i felt a warmth and courage inside. I got to know her and felt sure, i felt sure that we were meant to be. A month of being with her, i was deeply in love. my heart and sole were like burning coals. but then everything started becoming cold. My thought of the one for me started turning into a dream. then that dream was to good to be true it was a nightmare. I started to freeze. Hanging on to my last breath of warm air. She knocked the wind out of me, my words were harsh, my actions were cruel. now i wish everything were like the stone but because of what ive done im colder then the ice down low. im sorry for everything -zachary showalter- dont put the name thats just my signature
I really do not see a reason for the purposeful, cultural separations and stereotypes that exist for some people on the subject of gender. If anyone wont accept a sincere, well meaning apology then that is their problem. It only proves immaturity to not even attempt to see the blatantly obvious. A simple: I'm sorry should not misinterpreted because of ones gender. Sometimes all you have to do is watch TV to find out how young people have been misguided into stereotypes.Such as a boy being afraid to talk to a girl because he finds her pretty, the girl could have an IQ of 80 but the boy will be afraid because of stereotypes. Why even create this thread? Because of misinformation. Not really sure where I was going as it's *glances* 3:20 AM for me. So uh ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz........
Well, I just completed apologizing round 1 with my lady. We haven't spoken in 4 days and we live in the same house. We are like gun slingers in the hallway.
Why not, I need to vent a bit. I'll try to make it concise.
She asks me to come install dropbox on her work computer. I do. She is happy. Then she complains that it is running very slow. I load 2 different cleaning utility programs (Glary and CCleaner). I run each program and discover she had some spyware and a lot of temporary files that were bogging her down. I only had time to run those two cleaners.
Well, she calls me Monday morning and chews my butt out saying I deleted all of her tax files and a bunch of other stuff.
She was using the "Trash Bin" on the desktop as a folder to store files. The cleaners wiped them out.
BUUUUUUTTTT This is apparently my fault. So, we haven't said a word to each other in 4 days. Now, I'm tired of not speaking and got some flowers, candy, and a card. It should be arriving at her office any moment.
The important is not exaggerating and being humble, if you say one-hundred times how sorry, guilty or ashamed you are; most likely its not going to work and she won't forgive you.
Trust me, I felt that way for the past 4 days. But now...I really just want things back to normal, whether or not I am right doesn't matter anymore.
Yeah, I know what you mean. I have to bite my tongue a lot in order to keep the peace with the wife. And it is really hard, especially when you know you didn't do anything wrong, but have to act like you did. Perhaps you should get her a gift as well, maybe "Windows for Dummies" so this type of event doesn't happen again...
Perhaps you should get her a gift as well, maybe "Windows for Dummies" so this type of event doesn't happen again...
LOL
That made me spit Iced Tea out of my mouth! I'm pretty sure I would lose some privileges if I gave her that. She is the queen of passive aggressive and pick up on that immediately.
