I've noticed the increase in threads being made about problems with relationships and dating. Now, I have no problem with the subject matter. No, my problem is with the amount of threads people are creating about it.
Judging by all these threads being made about the same thing, it's safe to say it's inevitable for these questions to be asked; and since the answers to these relationship/dating questions are generally very similar, putting all the questions in one thread saves time and posting.
No, this is not a thread where you specifically ask me for advice; I don't know very much about this subject. I'm simply the guy who has created the thread so you can post your questions for anybody to answer.
So if you have a question about dating or relationships, or anything along those lines, ask it here, wait for someone to reply here, and don't make a new thread about it!
girls dont like having to go over to guys and their friends trust me.. they feel like they are just bugging them.. she wants u to go and see her even if her friends are their.. if you start going over their she might hang out with you more and more and it might end up being just you to together.
guys dont like having to go over to girls and their friends
yeah i know, trust me you are in the same situation that me and my boyfriend were in when we were just friends you have to be the brave one and go over their and talk to her cause girls are pretty stuborn and they want you to come to them.
Yeah, best advice is to get a good female friend or use a friend's girlfriend. Ask them for advice on how to approach them or what to do. Unless they're just really mean, it'll usually work pretty well.
i sort of like this girl who goes to my synagogue, but my bro and sis can get a little...annoying about when i get into a relationship, and the word at school spreads like wildfire and there can be some nasty rumors. on top of that, i am not the most social guy and am one of the "nerds" who isn't really outgoing. any advice?
my advice is just tell her.. it doesnt matter what your bro and sis say cause its not important trust me. if the kids spread bad rumors, just be like "whats the big deal? im a human i like people im no different then you."
i sort of like this girl who goes to my synagogue, but my bro and sis can get a little...annoying about when i get into a relationship, and the word at school spreads like wildfire and there can be some nasty rumors. on top of that, i am not the most social guy and am one of the "nerds" who isn't really outgoing. any advice?
A) If you're really scared of rumours, then you don't really like her. B) Brothers and sisters can be used as a strategy if you incoporate them subtly. Girls like young kids, it's the maternal side to them. C) Do you think she likes you? Or knows you exist? That's the important bit. D) Get to know her. BUT don't exactly be the nice guy. You see, if you get too friendly, you get dumped into the friend zone. That's nono.
E) Tell me about the above, and I'll see what I can do.
A) No, I'm not scared. I guess that I use that excuse to myself to not build up the courage. That's one of my major issues. Lack of courage. B) You don't know my siblings, lol. C) She knows I exist and she might possibly like me (I hope) D) Are there any signs of being dumped into the friend zone?
To answer D) the signs would be being liked, having your company enjoyed but still shown a lack of interest from a more romantic point of view if you will, by that i mean shown no signs of sexual interest,or other signs of attraction physical or other.(i'm not sure i'm allowed to say sexual...) To give you an example you enjoy a friends company but in no way fantasize about anything more intimate. The reason why this is even an issue is that most women get mistreated by their partner, the 21st century dating world is pretty much screwed and what they feel they need most is a male friend they can trust. The two friend and partner shouldn't be a separate thing if you ask me, Chivalry ain't dead as long as there are nice guys, however you should focus on becoming the lover first to avoid confusion. Good luck.
well at least for me.. i want to be your friend first not go straight into lets start dating, ya know?? be her friend but you can be flirty and all that might get her attention.
