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lilzozo
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I want all of you to post your thoughts of bullying, and get all of your pains of being bullied out right here. It is time that these forums actually do something good. Getting all of it out actually helps, a lot. I myself am bullied, and i know that it is not fun. Get it out here, we're all ears, and at this time, it is important to be in good spirits. Who knows, this thread could change somebody's life. If you can post anything, i would be grateful for your time.

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thepunisher93
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As long as u have guts to stand for ur rights and have will to go as far as it takes to defend them, no one can bully u

Bladerunner679
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Honestly, in my experience, while certainly not condoning bullying, I've found that the only people who get bullied are the ones who give off the signals. You know, they way you dress, they way you act, even the way you walk or talk. In most cases, it's your fault that you're getting bullied; if you just act normal a bully will always find weaker prey.


as nick has said earlier, most of the reasons people are bullied isn't even their own fault. like rabbit, I'm curious as to how you came up with such an ignorant statement. there is no definition of normal, because if there was a solid definition of normal, and everybody acted like that, then we will have a society very similar to that of "1984" (wonderful book, I'm currently reading it).

i found close friends. and eventually, all of my classmates liked me when they tried to get to know me. you know what was the result? 2 bullies against a bunch of mafya-ish cool guys XD. so even though i had almost not bond with most classmates, most of them liked me and acted like kind of guardians when they felt i needed help.


this seems more like a rebellion of people rallying together over a single icon, you. the bullies had put up a wicked tyranny for a long time, and there was nobody willing to stop it. one day, the people snap when they saw one being punished and humiliated without even doing anything wrong. this lit a spark in them, and they now fight to overthrow such awful tyranny.

I know that last paragraph was kinda wierd. I accidentally let my imagination intermingle with my analyzation skills.

As long as u have guts to stand for ur rights and have will to go as far as it takes to defend them, no one can bully u


Truer words were never spoken, punisher.

-Blade
nichodemus
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Truer words were never spoken, punisher.


Well, try standing up as a lone guy with a bunch of half a dozen thugs. You might have guts and spunk, but there is a line between reality and utter stupidity.
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Well, try standing up as a lone guy with a bunch of half a dozen thugs. You might have guts and spunk, but there is a line between reality and utter stupidity.


Which is why we choose to ramble about bullies online instead of IRL. ;D

I'm just happy that there aren't really any bullies in my school. Asshats, but no bullies. Except everyone makes fun of the girl who thinks her boyfriend is a Twilight-esque werewolf.
nichodemus
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Except everyone makes fun of the girl who thinks her boyfriend is a Twilight-esque werewolf.


I don't think that's bullying unless it gets malicious right?
waluigi
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They tried to make her homecoming queen last year just to make fun of her. Luckily, someone on the student counsel had the logic to give it to someone else.

ChillzMaster
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Hm, Bullying. The only real "Bullies" in my school are scumbag narcotics abusers whose only real purpose is to slouch their way through SPED classes and occasionally curse at the occasional passerby.

Other than that, we have no real bullies at good 'ole Pequannock. Yes there are cliques, but everyone is happy within their own group that no one really aspires to go outside their own friend circle.

Well, we do have a class personality who is free of any clique and is friends with everybody and represents the class as a whole due to his genius intellect, quick wit, and overall hilarity.

Yes I'm talking about me.

-Chillz

BoredMartian
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u got lucky.


Yep. Four times in a row. Anyways, I think bullies will look for any excuse to bully. As shown in this fable.....

The wolf and the lamb
Once there was a wolf drinking water from a stream. Downstream, he sees a lamb drinking from the same stream. The wolf thought he could eat the lamb, but he had to have a reason to eat the lamb. "Hey", the wolf said to the lamb. "Stop muddying my water!" "I'm not muddying your water, where I'm drinking from is downstream from where your drinking", the lamb replied. The wolf got annoyed and replied. "Well, I saw you drinking from where I drank for six months!" "But that's impossible because I'm only three months old", the lamb replied. "Well your dad must've been drinking from my place then, and that's just as bad" and he gobbled up the lamb
thebluerabbit
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this seems more like a rebellion of people rallying together over a single icon, you. the bullies had put up a wicked tyranny for a long time, and there was nobody willing to stop it. one day, the people snap when they saw one being punished and humiliated without even doing anything wrong. this lit a spark in them, and they now fight to overthrow such awful tyranny.


pretty much what happened.

it kind of felt as if im the innocent little child and they were some kind of mafia protecters like the godparent XD.
Bladerunner679
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it kind of felt as if im the innocent little child and they were some kind of mafia protecters like the godparent XD.


Lol, something like that doesn't happen unless there was already a lot of pent-up tension, and hatred, on the bullies beforehand. you gave them a reason to rebel, and now you have to live up to their expectations as a figurehead for the resistance.

Well, we do have a class personality who is free of any clique and is friends with everybody and represents the class as a whole due to his genius intellect, quick wit, and overall hilarity.
Yes I'm talking about me.


lol, there was a saying my brother taught me that helps me analyze people's claims. he said, "Pictures, or it never happened." It's not that I don't believe you, but I would believe you even more if you had proof to such a claim. if I remember right you are a satanist, and most people in america are christian. so therefore, unless you never told them you were one, that claim really can't be possible.
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Lol, something like that doesn't happen unless there was already a lot of pent-up tension, and hatred, on the bullies beforehand. you gave them a reason to rebel, and now you have to live up to their expectations as a figurehead for the resistance.


they werent hated but nobody liked them. they were just those stupid kids who had nothing better to do. i wasnt really the figurehead. it was more like this:

"HOW DARE YOU BULLY THIS UNDERWEIGHT QUIET CHILD"
*people chasing the bullies*
me thinking:...im not a child but.... ok :3
thepunisher93
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I have friend who is like less then 5 feet and weighs around 40 kg hence a perfect mark for bullies once they took his arm out of his socket.
After getting his arm fixed he came back to school and a bully messed with him again.
My friend hit him with fountain pen nib in his head and after that no one dared to mess with him except once (which was resolved with a busted head).

thebluerabbit
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I have friend who is like less then 5 feet and weighs around 40 kg hence a perfect mark for bullies once they took his arm out of his socket.
After getting his arm fixed he came back to school and a bully messed with him again.
My friend hit him with fountain pen nib in his head and after that no one dared to mess with him except once (which was resolved with a busted head).


lol awsome. but i just cant do that. i remember only being in a "fight" once. the first one was against a bully. he just wouldnt leave me alone on my way back home. he tried to make me fall and sudently i just raged at him, lifted him and threw him on the ground. i was in 2nd grade and weighted like 14 kg then. we were both really shocked XD

the second time wasnt against a bully and i cant remember how that fight started... but i just hit him on his back to try and get him away from me. then the teacher came in and sent him to the principals room. she felt sorry for me (even though i didnt get hurt) and let me play the com in that class XD
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Well, we do have a class personality who is free of any clique and is friends with everybody and represents the class as a whole due to his genius intellect, quick wit, and overall hilarity.

Yes I'm talking about me.

Kind of obvious... no offense

In my school it's not really friendship groups -- I can easily identify specific groups that people generally hang out with but each person branches into 2-3 different groups and it all interconnects really... The guys who do P.E I get along with, and the group of non-*****y girls (I actually have no real other way of putting it) I get along with... of course there's two different groups of them but still.
Then you have the genuine people -- duller sense of humor than the P.E guys, but more relaxed, generally more intelligent (higher sets in academic areas) but quite honestly seem to be arrogant because of that respect.

Then you've got this off-shoot musical group of smart (they all are, but these guys are a different kind of smart) but hilariously clumsy guys who always have a good time and seem to have more common sense as a result in some scenarios.

All friends -- I "hang out" with none in particular, either... though it should be noted that that's of my own choice that isn't shared by too many other people in my school ^^

As for bullying?
Doesn't happen.
At all... I mean, there are actions taken by a lot of people I know that I wouldn't condone or even agree with that could be in relation to another person some way, but a lot of it I couldn't constitute as bullying. The more severe actions made against people generally have a story behind it (by "generally" I mean always), and the rarity of it happening makes it more of something to solve straight away than a matter of bullying.

'Course... that also isn't solved in the way I'd prefer, but alas, it wouldn't involve me.

Yep. Four times in a row. Anyways, I think bullies will look for any excuse to bully. As shown in this fable.....

Something that I don't know if it holds true, but definitely worth pointing out that I've had times where I would lie, use only some excuses I have or make false ones entirely (that are reasonable) in order to do something personal on my own accord... never to harm another person (hell... that barely if ever happens), but I don't think others would understand. Can I blame them? Of course not, being as I can see a lot of different things and be a lot of different things that people genuinely do not see -- if I did bring any of the scenarios up they would thing I've undergone a complete change of character! (I am sadly a cynical character in real life as well -- trying to change that, though )

With bullying some may feel justified somehow, others may not think others understand their situation... Others just act that way to give them "the excuse"?

I honestly don't know -- but bullying I've never seen as bad as its heard of honestly, and I can't imagine too many situations of that actually happening.

No... I am not underestimating what it can do or be like -- I've not bore witness to enough of it to honestly know. -- Simply put, I'm speaking from experience.

It's not that I don't believe you, but I would believe you even more if you had proof to such a claim. if I remember right you are a satanist, and most people in america are christian. so therefore, unless you never told them you were one, that claim really can't be possible.

The only reason people in my school know I'm atheist is because they're so relatively tolerant, and furthermore a lot of them claim the same thing. I say tolerant, but I should note there was quite an interesting discussion going around about homosexuality when a certain figurehead in the media was brought up -- a lot of people, and not all that unreasonably so figured that it was a choice and it was quite difficult influencing them otherwise...
That, and the moral point of "there's not really anything wrong with it anyways" always works. I should try and simplify a lot of arguments though -- I always see a moral debate as a subjective measurement of two or more different things, so I should ask "You would value X over Y... think about that for a minute ^^ ".

"HOW DARE YOU BULLY THIS UNDERWEIGHT QUIET CHILD"
*people chasing the bullies*
me thinking:...im not a child but.... ok :3

Quick question -- just how valued is / was your word at the time?

i remember only being in a "fight" once.

Strangely enough (being as I am cynical and outright "weird&quot, I've never been in a proper fight with anyone bar my brother when I was much younger... quite funny really.

I don't bring myself to hit someone and engage in a fight -- I see it as a last resort and it's for the most part not worth it... I honestly have no idea how I'd handle myself in one though.

Also.. you've somewhat vague recollections of "fights"... if you can even call them that :P
But the superhero one at the start was kind of funny, if you don't mind me saying ^^

- H
thebluerabbit
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Quick question -- just how valued is / was your word at the time?


lol what word? i was pretty much quiet. never really told anyone but the teachers (whod just ignore). im not sure when it started but they just started to protect me without me saying CHAAAARGE lol.

the bullies werent the tough strong guys either so they didnt even have the courage to wait for me to be alone or something. after that most classmates pretty much liked playing with me and noticed that im not boring as i seemd to be. like you said about those groups, ive been a friend of pretty much all the groups (there werent manny since it was in the early elemental years) except those 2 bullies.

they werent tough enough to fight anyone (even me actually since im actually stronger then look for some reason XD) but i never dared to fight anyone even those who tried to hurt me so it gave them the confidence to hurt the underweight little child that wont even try to fight back. the physical difference was: 2 normal looking kids against a kid that once got lifted of the ground by the wind (that happened XP)

this is why me AND the bully were shocked when i actually lifted him XD i guess it was andrenaline (spelled wrong?) or something.

and yes. it was funny and i can see it myself.

your school sounds big and fun. with many groups too. how many students were in your class? and how many paralel classes did you have? also was there a relationship between the paralel classes?
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