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nichodemus
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Since this topic hasn't been popping up much, and since the old threads are all so cluttered up, I took the liberty of creating this new one.

So yes, someone asked me for sources about my claims that 1500 species of animals practice homosexual behaviour? Here.


Source 1

Source 2

Now on to one of the sub questions. Is it natural? Well, someone mentioned that it wasn't natural only for humans. Now, why this discrimination? If the Gods of various religions keep throwing and creating people who are homosexual, either a) They're bad factory operators or b) Something is fishy with whatever anti-gay talk religious conservatives swear is sacred.

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Deth666
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I always thought that it was very weird that guys fantasize about two women having sex but women are the opposite when it comes to two dudes having sex. As to homosexuality being natural or not, I think it is but then where do we draw the line? Is transvestism and incest ok as well?


meh... even if it WAS his son. is it not his fault? it is his fault until he actually talks to him. which surprises me he didnt say he talked to him after he posted such a comment. wouldnt surprise me if he is one of the parents who would be angry because you said something and not because of what you said.



"Racism isn't born, folks, it's taught. I have a two-year-old son. You know what he hates? Naps! End of list." Denis Leary
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but then where do we draw the line? Is transvestism and incest ok as well?


I honestly don't care, so long as it's consensual from both parties. The thing with incest though is that in reproducing it can greatly increase the chance of birth defects.
Deth666
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What about people who have sex with furniture and other inanimate objects?

Kasic
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What about people who have sex with furniture and other inanimate objects?


I feel like we're drifting off topic, but okay.

Again, I don't really care, so long as it's theirs (although I would hope they don't have people sit on it...) then why does it matter to anyone?
Dewi1066
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What about people who have sex with furniture and other inanimate objects?


How is that in any way, shape or form comparable to homosexuality?

And besides that, is it really any of your business who or what someone choose to do with their sex life as long as they are not infringing on another person (or animal for that matter) without consent?

Could we get back on topic, because this is getting silly.
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Sorry I wasn't trying to be off topic. I was just wondering what makes homosexuality ok and not other things, at least to some people. Although looking back I agree sex with inanimate objects is not comparable. It just seems that once you accept homosexuality it makes it hard to say this is ok but that isn't.

Kasic
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I was just wondering what makes homosexuality ok


1) It hurts no one.
2) Some people like it.
3) Uh...are any other reasons necessary?

It just seems that once you accept homosexuality it makes it hard to say this is ok but that isn't.


Let's compare homosexuality to racism for a second. If you blanket say that one race is better than all the others, then you have a solid platform. It's intolerant, ignorant, and bigoted, but it's not hypocritical. However, once you admit even once that another race is at the very least not inferior, you lose all ground because you are now contradicting yourself and have no reasons -at all- bigoted, intolerant, or ignorant to fall back onto as you have already voided them vs something which was previously "wrong."

Long example short, accepting that homosexuality isn't wrong means that you fundamentally agree that it is someone's choice on what they do and just because you don't enjoy/like it it isn't wrong.
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I was just wondering what makes homosexuality ok and not other things, at least to some people. Although looking back I agree sex with inanimate objects is not comparable. It just seems that once you accept homosexuality it makes it hard to say this is ok but that isn't.

Well as long as it doesn't hurt anyone ("hurt" as in doing something against your will, of course mentally disabled people would be an exception) then I always thought it would be okay for that act to be legal or at least i would accept/tolerate it.
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Well as long as it doesn't hurt anyone ("hurt" as in doing something against your will, of course mentally disabled people would be an exception) then I always thought it would be okay for that act to be legal or at least i would accept/tolerate it.


And just like other traits that people once discrimininated against, being black, being of another faith, etc, I don't see how it would most of the time affect directly.
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Although looking back I agree sex with inanimate objects is not comparable. It just seems that once you accept homosexuality it makes it hard to say this is ok but that isn't.


Why would someone else's sexual fetish which is conducted in privacy affect you? Even if they did it in broad daylight and humped the Eiffel Tower, one woman did, just look away. At most, it gives you a few seconds of disgust.
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Here's a better question that's more on topic.

For other attractions, (Such as transvestites, inanimate objects, incest, bestiality, etc) at what point do we determine that something is a mental illness?

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For other attractions, (Such as transvestites, inanimate objects, incest, bestiality, etc) at what point do we determine that something is a mental illness?


Concerning transvestites and inanimate objects, I have no objections. Other people's sex lives don't affect me in any way whether it's behind closed doors or not; do whatever you want. That being said, incest and bestiality fall into a blurry space of sexuality. Since animals can't really give sexual consent, I'd label all forms of bestiality as ****. To be honest, this generalization is very hard to justify. What happens if an animal begins sexual acts or doesn't show any signs of disapproval? Because of the ambiguity between **** or consensual sex between animals and species, I think it's fair to keep it illegal.

Incest is a tougher subject. Does sex with relatives actually affect other people? We get another ambiguous answer: sometimes. My biggest problem with incest is inbreeding. Inbreeding is detrimental to our species because it increases homozygosity (don't be confused by the prefix, this has nothing to do with homosexuality) which increases the likelihood of deleterious allele expression. In simpler terms, inbreeding increases the likelihood of birthing children with defects and disabilities. This of course, brings up more questions. Is incest using contraception or sex between sterile individuals acceptable? Is homosexual incest okay? Personally, I'm much more comfortable with these forms of incest because they don't lead to children. Once again, because it's hard to draw the line on what circumstances make incest acceptable or unacceptable, I'm most comfortable keeping it illegal.
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I'm okay with this kind of digression, it's generating good discussion.

Because of the ambiguity between **** or consensual sex between animals and species, I think it's fair to keep it illegal.


It would be difficult to argue that it was fair to maintain status quo, so much as easier. Besides, there's less ambiguity than one thinks, there's only a double standard: either consent can be demonstrated in a manner other than verbally, as in our notion of informed consent between competent persons, or we can grant license to act in situations where the process of consent can not be demonstrated (which also applies to people acting on people). In this day and age, people who argue that we can't demonstrate meaningful interaction between certain different species without at least acknowledging that it varies per species need to brush up their knowledge on animal behaviours.

On the grounds of acting without consent, this is only an issue wrt animal rights insofar as such action constitutes an act of abuse: there exist recent legal precedents in which certain individuals have commited acts of bestiality but no harm could be demonstrated, thus a conviction could not be made. Given that post the infamous case of Mr Hands the US states seemed generally to lean towards the criminalisation of bestiality (ostensibly on the grounds of risk to self, I suppose, given what happened to Mr Hands), these more recent judgements actually surprised me, but less so in the context of how animal philosophy is developing and actually starting to make an impact.

at what point do we determine that something is a mental illness?


For our purposes, behaviours are considered pathological if:

1) They cause harm to self.
2) They cause harm to others.
3) They cause significant distress to oneself in considering them unacceptable.
4) They are considerably detrimental to a person's social functioning.

This covers all forms of pathological behaviours, like addictions, personality disorders, mood disorders, eating disorders, schizophrenia, as well as paraphilias. In fact, to this end this definition has led to sexual behaviours becoming progressively considered not necessarily a form of mental illness in itself, though controversy does remain as a result: note that paedophilic behaviours are by definition pathological given the above, as we currently consider engaging in sexual behaviours with a minor to constitute abuse of the minor, which has led to the interesting phenomenon of activist groups attempting to argue that this shouldn't be the case and the definitions need to be reviewed (after all it wasn't a problem in Ancient Greece or Rome!)

Tangent: I remember reading about the case of a man who was brought before the court having stolen the corpse of his ex-girlfriend's recently deceased (female) dog. If I recall correctly, he was found, er, attempting intercourse with said dog, in the middle of the street. The prosecution wanted to charge him with "a crime against nature". As bizarre as the incident was and as mentally unwell as this made the defendant seem, only the felony charge of stealing the dog's body, and the indecency charge of exposing himself in a public place, stuck!
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I'd label all forms of bestiality as ****. To be honest, this generalization is very hard to justify. What happens if an animal begins sexual acts or doesn't show any signs of disapproval? Because of the ambiguity between **** or consensual sex between animals and species, I think it's fair to keep it illegal.


I actually heard this guy doing an interview talk about how he had a long term relationship with a dolphin. He said the dolphin was actually very aggressive with his ex girlfriend. He even said that it was the dolphin who initiated the sex. It obviously all happened in the water. Honestly, I don't know what to think.

I'm actually fine with homosexuality but I'm not fine with bestiality incest and necrophilia.


As to whether homosexuality is some sort of mental illness, I don't think so. I'm straight. Yet, I've done some very crazy things I shouldn't have to have sex and had sex in really crazy places I shouldn't have and had sex with some really crazy women I shouldn't have. No one considers me to have a mental illness or at the very least not one relating to sexual behavior. I'm sure some of the same could be said for homosexuals except it was with the same sex.

p.s. I re-read what i wrote about me having sex with women i shouldn't have and I'd just like to add that it was all consensual and to my knowledge legal
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I'm actually fine with homosexuality but I'm not fine with bestiality incest and necrophilia.


In the past it was normal for people to marry within their families, and most royalty did so.
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