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Savingthedream14
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Should I tell my parents that I am gay. I am going to tell them eventually but should I tell them sooner?
And should I tell the guy that I like that I am gay? Or do you think that if I told him it would scare him away?

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ferary
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well in not Christian in muslim but in Islam it is said that god is forgiving and will forgive any sinexcept wone that isnt being gay

benman113
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If you and a regligous group don't agreed don't be a part of it

Xzeno
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Well, you have to tell someone, I think. Not your parents.

How does the guy you like feel about gays? If you don't know, you could find out by bringing it up in a noncommittal way. If he's not homophobic, consider telling him that you're gay and how you feel about him.

Aside from that, I'd recommend telling a friend. It's good to have someone who knows and cares.

daxflame44
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Tell

THEY ARE YOUR PARENTS, they love you no matter what, If they don't love you because your gay, you got some horrible parents.
No offense

theone99
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Yes, just tell em. simple 2 words which you already know. then if it gets awkward just start laughing and ask about the football game.

benman113
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maybe you should tell an adult you respect like a teacher or coach maybe an uncle or aunt

Xzeno
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maybe you should tell an adult you respect like a teacher or coach maybe an uncle or aunt
This is actually very good advice. If you have an adult to whom you look up, it can be very helpful to talk to him or her about these sorts of things.

As an aside, if your parents do find out and disapprove, just tell them a flash gaming site turned you gay.
benman113
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As an aside, if your parents do find out and disapprove, just tell them a flash gaming site turned you gay.

I don't think that will work
Savingthedream14
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well in not Christian in muslim but in Islam it is said that god is forgiving and will forgive any sinexcept wone that isnt being gay

Maybe I should become muslim xP.
How does the guy you like feel about gays? If you don't know, you could find out by bringing it up in a noncommittal way. If he's not homophobic, consider telling him that you're gay and how you feel about him.

I told him, he said he doesn't want to be gay, whatever that means, but that we can stil be friends and that he thinks I'm awesome, and not weird, that almost exactly what he said.
Aside from that, I'd recommend telling a friend. It's good to have someone who knows and cares.

I told my bff, she knows, and so does another bff, and the guy I like that's everybody.
Yes, just tell em. simple 2 words which you already know. then if it gets awkward just start laughing and ask about the football game.

No not footbal :P
THEY ARE YOUR PARENTS, they love you no matter what, If they don't love you because your gay, you got some horrible parents.
No offense

Yeah I'm sure they will but I'm still intimidated by them.
maybe you should tell an adult you respect like a teacher or coach maybe an uncle or aunt

Maybe like another gay person?
As an aside, if your parents do find out and disapprove, just tell them a flash gaming site turned you gay.

Wow,
benman113
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Maybe like another gay person?

I was talking more like a responsible adult but maybe telling another gay person in a none sexual way will help you cause they can tell you how to deal with stuff through there personal experience
Savingthedream14
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I was talking more like a responsible adult but maybe telling another gay person in a none sexual way will help you cause they can tell you how to deal with stuff through there personal experience

Yeah probably. But like a counselor maybe from school?
benman113
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Why not what is the worst that can happen Y'know?

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As an aside, if your parents do find out and disapprove, just tell them a flash gaming site turned you gay


Cause that always works. Always.

Yeah probably. But like a counselor maybe from school?


Well, look at some articles online or watch a video on how to tell your parents that you are gay. Unless your parents monitor your computer, then that would be an odd way to find out.
benman113
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Unless your parents monitor your computer

Then they will find out from this thread
Savingthedream14
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Well, look at some articles online or watch a video on how to tell your parents that you are gay. Unless your parents monitor your computer, then that would be an odd way to find out.

They do, but I'm using a private browsing tool so I'm safe for now.

Why not what is the worst that can happen Y'know?

Lots of things, my dad says the scariest stuff about gay guys.
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