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Savingthedream14
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Should I tell my parents that I am gay. I am going to tell them eventually but should I tell them sooner?
And should I tell the guy that I like that I am gay? Or do you think that if I told him it would scare him away?

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Somers
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When your parents goout of the house, make a trail of candies leading to your bedroom closet. When they come home, they'l follow it and they when their in your room, you jump out of the closet!!!!

No, but you really should just tell them upfront. Its not that hard. Rkelly, tom crusie and john travolta all did it.

samdawghomie
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They do, but I'm using a private browsing tool so I'm safe for now.


InPrivate Browsing ftw.

Lots of things, my dad says the scariest stuff about gay guys.


Like? Or I probably shouldn't ask.
Savingthedream14
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Like? Or I probably shouldn't ask.

You probably shouldn't you don't wanna hear, usually just calls them bad names, and other hurtful stuff.
InPrivate Browsing ftw.

Amen.
Snakebite
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Unless your parents monitor your computer, then that would be an odd way to find out.


There's ways around that too. By clearing your browser history and cache, it's harder to track internet usage.

I have many friends who are either gay or bi. Some have told their parents, and others waited. The ones who did tell, had different reactions. The parents of one went as far as a reeducation camp type program to try to scare the gayness out of my friend... Obviously it didn't work. You know your parents better than any of us, get a feel of how they react to gays. And always go with your gut instinct. They may not like your sexuality, but they'll always love you.
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usually just calls them bad names, and other hurtful stuff.

He probaly thinks your kind of gay and is trying to detter you.
Savingthedream14
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but they'll always love you.

You guys have to meet my parents, so you will stop making stupid comments.
He probaly thinks your kind of gay and is trying to detter you.

I'm pretty sure that's exactly what they are trying to do, to scare me away.
Somers
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but they'll always love you.
You guys have to meet my parents, so you will stop making stupid comments.


I get you. Im not gay, but if i was ever to tell my parents, if they didnt shoot me they would probably deny me and put me out on the street.
benman113
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Well when I told my parents I was athiest I had the advantage of being stronger than my dad cause I work out for football and that stuff.

Ernie15
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The worst thing that could happen in this situation is your dad going outside and looking at the sky for a few hours. I feel like I've seen that in a movie somewhere, but I just can't place the name...

Somers
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The worst thing that could happen in this situation is your dad going outside and looking at the sky for a few hours. I feel like I've seen that in a movie somewhere, but I just can't place the name...


lol a dramatic thoughtful walk on the beach?
Savingthedream14
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I get you. Im not gay, but if i was ever to tell my parents, if they didnt shoot me they would probably deny me and put me out on the street.

Something similar.
The worst thing that could happen in this situation is your dad going outside and looking at the sky for a few hours. I feel like I've seen that in a movie somewhere, but I just can't place the name...

Never seen it.
lol a dramatic thoughtful walk on the beach?

In silence. Haha.
benman113
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Well you should ask someone you know if you can crash at their house just untill things cool down?

Ernie15
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Never seen it.


Maybe it was a completely different situation, but I feel like I've seen that somewhere before...

lol a dramatic thoughtful walk on the beach?


Best not go with him on that one.
Savingthedream14
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Well you should ask someone you know if you can crash at their house just untill things cool down?

I will be a runaway, might work.
Best not go with him on that one.

Yeah it will turn a beautiful scene into a murder scene.
benman113
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I will be a runaway, might work.

I wouldn't try that just hang at a friends house for a couple days
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