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if they wanna shun you (being silly Catholics and all), you'll already be set to take care of yourself.

Avorne? Murdering people is not nice, plus its against the law =)

Yeah well my dad said if I ever turned gay "sometime down the road, he would find me and kill my lover", those were his exact words I think.

Yeah but I think it would be better to tell them sooner than later.

You're probably not gay.

@ Drace. I'm pretty sure.
@Zoph. Well I just think that the deserve to know. To know that they will never have grandchildren? I don't know I just think that its important that they know, that they their only child is gay...........

@ Drace. I'm pretty sure.

I have a feeling your just going to say.

"JUST KIDDDING"

And then leave the thread.

Eh. I dunno. Best idea is to not be around your parents as you say it.

Let them have a bit of time to think about it by themselves AKA Get away from them (Camp out at a friends place for a few days) and just before you leave have a short conversation and say your...feelings. (Don't ask me how) to your parents. Best to get away from them for 2-5 days. The longer the better (You have to let the guilt sink in, that takes a while when they're angry) Let them reason themselves rather then you reason them.

Always be prepared to stand up for what you believe in.

I have a feeling your just going to say.

"JUST KIDDDING"

And then leave the thread.

@Drace so does he

Let them have a bit of time to think about it by themselves AKA Get away from them (Camp out at a friends place for a few days) and just before you leave have a short conversation and say your...feelings. (Don't ask me how) to your parents. Best to get away from them for 2-5 days. The longer the better (You have to let the guilt sink in, that takes a while when they're angry) Let them reason themselves rather then you reason them.

They wont exactly kill you, and if your dad would kill you he needs locking up

That's scary, I would tell your mother, see how she reacts, your father seems to be antigay. And yeah, they should probably know, they are after all, your parents.

That's scary, I would tell your mother, see how she reacts, your father seems to be antigay. And yeah, they should probably know, they are after all, your parents.

So Hot women don't give you a boner?

Well I just think that the deserve to know. To know that they will never have grandchildren? I don't know I just think that its important that they know, that they their only child is gay...........

Are you? I never understood even how women aren't lesbians. I mean, women have everything anyone could sexually desire.

Nice soft skin and hair, beauty, cushiony boobs and butt, etc..

This. Although they do kinda lack proper equipment for actual humping.
Don't understand general attraction to guys myself, but apparently tons of straight women and gay guys do quite like 'em. :O

Then why haven't you made up your mind yet? Too scared of their reaction or don't know how to break the news or...?

So Hot women don't give you a boner?

Although they do kinda lack proper equipment for actual humping.