I'm not a great fan of this kind of debate and this is maybe my last entry here but i will give you my thought about this.
I grew up in a Christian family. We were very faithful at the beginning, I reminds me going to the church each Sunday with my mom , I was happy to see a lot of people , talking to them
and listen the other sing. (the beauty of being a child ~ )
I remember enjoying christmas , and other celebration..
That was always cool , We were a lot around a table , exchanging our thought about all and nothing , great meal and a lot of joy that was the good time.
As i grew more i started to lose my faith seeing the real face of the world and how corrupted he is..
The child grew up to a Teenager who was asking to himself a lot of questions about his life and the world. I was expecting some change , I wondering why "good" people are hurt ? why criminal are on top of the world ? what's i'm doing here ? what about "god" ?
I started to going less and less on church, You can earn some good values with religion but it's not the only way , the best for me was experimenting things by myself, after all your are the ruler of your life , not only the actor of this strange game but the realisator too !
As i grew more, life begin to be very cruel with me i lost a lot of members of my family in a very short time whitout any reasons , they were good person and i wasn't capable of understand why they leave ? Why them ? As a teen i was very shocked , Starting to be depressed it was a very dark time...
A proverb I like very much says: Which isn't killing us make us stronger.
I was started to use my pain , and other feelings who hurt a lot to climb the steep slope who's the life.
I was very solitary , and now i try to open to others, i'm thinking humanity can do very well if the people unite. Actually i see a lot of people fighting each other in the world , often for reason who bypass them or just for prove they are the best or something like that..
Now as a young adult if i can give you some advice :
I'm think religion are like a boat in a harbor they are plenty of them , you can take a boat to your destination , enjoying the travel and discovering some values but don't forget to land on the destination. In other side you can go to your destination with other ways (like swimming , air plane or any kind of transport) just experiment your own choice =)
Don't try to change other people, They can be agressive against you and you will not convince them x') , In other hand if you show them by being an example , like a lighthouse , just be a light and let the people determine if they gain to follow your example !
Be proud of our diversity , and make it a Strenght. The world would be boring if we were all the same , I'm thinking of each person can add to the potential of humanity : Atheist , Christian , Muslim and all others. Each point of view add to the balance and can influence thing in the good ways.
Beware in beeing an Extremist in all areas, not only in religion , it's never a good thing.
Choose your own path , I choose the "good" one for me , I don't care about death if i will go to heaven , die and that's the end, Resurrect in another body or thing ? , I really don't care x').
After all no matter who are right or wrong about that, you can be
good if you want to be, and that's what really matter.
We don't need to be divided by such things but on the contrary
unite to change the world in a good way, and leave this better world to the futur generations.
Besides that I still hope to see my loved ones who disappeared.
Maybe one day ? No ones know, but i hope that, I think nothing is impossible!
Last but not the least ! Have faith , faith is a powerfull force , religious have faith in god , but if you aren't just have faith in yourself =) !
Think about present and not about futur , enjoy your life , live the present !!
I Hope it can be useful to you and Have fun !!!